Ivy Mysterious

To add to this,said person probably put in more effort tryna to get me to re-add them then they did before. It left me wondering why they didn't make that much effort before, they wouldn't have gotten deleted then 😂

Here's a new one People who add me, we talk afterwards but then I never hear from them. You remove these people and THEN they IM you confused as to why you deleted them.... 🤦

Awwww thank you! Of all my alts, at the moment she's definitely my favorite looks wise

Some shots I've taken that I'm really super proud of, and all have minimal to no editing

To be entirely honest with the things that goes down here I'm surprised it's still here and open

OMG I want them!

This will be the last time I respond to you Ashlyn then I'm going to lead by example and ignore you. You may not have verbally said what you want, but your responses to what people are saying make it pretty clear you are only moaning, and whining and complaining because people are responding to it, even making low blows like saying "Okay Karen" to Selene. I'm not saying we've all been saints and you may not be the sole perpetrator here but you are however the one who keeps it going. You can post pictures, there are threads here for that, this thread however, even though I can't actively control what people do post here is geared towards people talking about what there peeves are so posting pictures in this particular one isn't a good idea. I have no ill feelings towards you Ashlyn, I don't know you but you seem to thoroughly enjoy being negative and trolling people just for the sake of it

I believe we've spent enough time going back and forth here, so please drop it. If you want to continue this petty behavior @Ashlyn Voir then start a thread of your own. This is a pet peeves thread where we respectively talk about the things that annoy us currently in Second Life. I urge everyone if you want her to go away then stop giving her what she wants because that's the only reason she is coming back, because you all keep replying to the things she says. And I urge you Ashlyn to spend time doing something productive and stop being so passive aggressive and rude to people, you complain about noone liking you but judging from your responses you don't make it easy. You can't keep insulting people and then turn around, feeling sorry for yourself and acting like the victim when people get upset. You get what you give, remember that, if you give negativity, you're gonna get negativity back.

Ashlyn,I mean no disrespect when I ask this,but if you don't like this forum or the people in it,or don't care what people think about you...why do you keep coming back? Why not spend time with people you do like or doing things you enjoy?

What are you talking about?

What really shocked me was in the first conversation I couldn't have asked for a friendlier one. I believe I had even told him that I was looking forward to role-playing with him because we have similar kinks and interests,so it surprise see me when I came back from being afk and seen that from the same person. Guess it was a good thing that he showed his true colors early, saved me the headache 🤷

I don't really know how to explain this peeve, so I'm just gonna say what happened A couple nights ago I was at an RP sim that is geared towards adult themes, and while I was roleplaying with something I get an IM from someone and we start talking. We discuss the things we like to RP and he wanted to TP me to hang out, so we could be sorta face to face so to speak, but I was already busy so I told him I couldn't. He asked me after I was done to let him know and we could hang out and I said okay. Now keep in mind RP's usually take atleast 2-4 hours depending on what we're doing. While I was RPing I noticed the guy had hopped offline, so I thought nothing of it and closed the IM window we had been talking in. Now I hadn't noticed he had logged back in, I just assumed since it was late he had logged for the night. Two days later, when he are both logged in at the same time he IM's me and the conversation went like this ( Amori is me by the way, hence why I didn't change the name): [2020/03/26 13:21] Guy: So you took off the other day without letting me get a look at you, like I had asked. [2020/03/26 13:21] Guy: One of those types? [2020/03/26 13:22] Guy: Rhetorical question. Take care [2020/03/26 13:24] Amorí (SeleneBolin): How did I take off? you had logged off before I had become free [2020/03/26 13:31] Amorí (SeleneBolin): I didn't get done RPing till like 1 in the morning, and by the time I had become free you were offline but sure, blame me. Have a good day [2020/03/26 13:33] Guy: I was still online when you logged out lol [2020/03/26 13:33] Amorí (SeleneBolin): [2020/03/24 20:10] Guy: Lemme know when you're free so I can get a look at ya. [2020/03/24 20:10] Guy: [2020/03/24 20:10] Amorí (SeleneBolin): Okie I will 😃 [2020/03/24 20:11] Guy: Thank you. [2020/03/24 21:23] Second Life: Guy is offline. [2020/03/26 13:34] Guy: Yes. It's called a crash. I logged back in immediately afterwards. [2020/03/26 13:34] Amorí (SeleneBolin): Well I didn't see you log back in, either way I don't put up with belittlement simply because I didn't do what you wanted [2020/03/26 13:35] Guy: Then why the ***** are you bothering with these IM's? Get the ***** out of here, you cancerous *****. [2020/03/26 13:36] Amorí (SeleneBolin): Did you really expect me to say nothing to your snotty IM's? If you don't want me to respond, don't *****ing IM me you egotistical ***** Now I had never met this guy before in my life. If I had bailed on him before then I would understand his frustration but that had been the only time I had talked to him and I even told him what happened. If you can't be understanding that things happen then thats your problem and not mine

Can we talk about "Child" Avi's using baby talk for a second? I absolutely ABHOR baby talk. If you're Roleplaying as a toddler (1-4 years old ) I can excuse it, but most claim to be 6 and up and I'm just sitting here like "Have you actually HEARD a 6 year old talk?" Dey shore don't talkz like deese! Like for *bleep* sake every time i see it it makes me wanna claw my eyes out and drink battery acid!

Heres one I've been meaning to post (may already have, theirs 120 pages, not going back to look lol) When I'm role-playing with someone and its a fight scene, or a scene that involves me struggling or getting into an altercation with the person I am role-playing with and the person simply doesn't acknowledge it in any way, or acts like i didn't just try to punch/ kick/ slap them Example, this literally JUST happened: [2020/03/08 19:33] Iᴠʏ RᴀᴇBᴇʟ - Sᴀʀᴀsᴡᴀᴛɪ (IvyLarae) screamed out when she was slapped, feeling her teeth sink into her lip from the impact as well as her face throb. She was putting up one hell of a bravado as she glared at him. Ivy had very long, pointed nails and at the threat she would try to rake them in a quick swipe across his face, if she succeeded she would catch him right along his cheek and she'd probably leave red welts and would try to bolt off the bed if she distracted him enough [2020/03/08 19:38] RP Partner ( Name changed out of respect) laughs as she gets all jacked on him. "So you wanna play rough. Good. I'm probably gonna make you cry for me to let you and your boy toy go." As an RPer literally NOTHING will turn me against an RP quicker than this specific thing, like ffs how hard is it to simply emote dodging said actions? don't completely ignore them!?

oooooh okay,my bad hun,sometimes its hard to tell with text

Maybe, IDK honestly, the way I read it it didn't seem like she was lol

You were fine with someone else linking my forum, you even quoted her, but why is it not okay for me, the person who created the forum, to do it?

When your rent runs out and all your stuff gets returned in one large blob that you gotta rez out and take apart -.-

Here's my NO! List item People who post another thread to try and copy an already popular thread that is catered to this very thing. Hi, my names Ivy, and I created the Pet peeves thread almost 2 years ago and it has almost 120 pages Stay original y'all ❤️

I admit, not much really gets under my skin when it comes to SL anymore. Yeah things till annoy me, but the peeves I post about here are more or less just mild annoyances I have at the moment, give me a day and odds are I won't remember what that peeve was unless I go back and look lol With that being said though, there is one thing that I can say with 100& honesty is very much a peeve of mine and annoys me above all else and its when someone tells me, or someone else they completely missed their point, but then follow it up with something like " Not gonna explain how though, sorry". I will admit it sometimes takes me reading something a couple times to fully comprehend and understand it, its one of the main reasons I'd rather text or IM someone then talk on a phone or voice call because it saves me the mild embarrassment of having to ask someone to repeat themselves when I simply didn't understand what they said. I have had quite a few people tell me I completely missed the mark on the point they are trying to make and then refuse to explain when I ask them to is maddeningly frustrating. Like what could they POSSIBLY gain from not explaining their point so the person they are talking to can better understand it? I am the type if someone shows they are confused, I will try to explain it till I am blue in the face, because atleast if they still don't understand where I'm coming from, I can atleast rest easy knowing its not because I didn't take the time to try and explain. People popping off and saying " You missed my point but not gonna explain how" to me is just Sooooo petty and spiteful and immature it honestly makes me wish I could stick my hands through the screen so I can choke them!

Honestly, thats one of the more milder things I've seen the residence of SL say lol

Here's something that recently happened. I done a Gacha giveaway in a gifting group on FB. In the post I clearly state that they needed to comment their username and the name of the item they wanted off a list of Gacha's I had, and since I wanted to be able to gift as many as possible, I was limiting it to one item per username literally THE FIRST COMMENT I GOT on that post was just someone telling me the item they wanted with no username, and then replied to their original comment with a list of other things they also wanted like.....just CAN YOU NOT READ?!

That's just it beauty is entirely subjective. What's ugly to one person is beautiful to another. everyone's avatar is created to please the eye of the person behind the keyboard, not everyone looking at it, so really it doesn't matter if you find it ugly or not, just like it doesn't whether or not I'd find yours ugly (not saying yours is, just saying that to make a point)

...what?

You can derender people, and I usually walk around with friends only activated for that very reason, but just because you can't see the, doesn't mean the complexity and script count of their avatars doesn't boggle down a sim. You may not be able to see them, but their avatars are still on the sim and the unneeded attachments they have, dogs, cats, wings, Particle bumpers, spankers etc can still cause a significant amount of lag on a sim