I started dating my husband when he was still a classic and I mesh. I hired him to build me a cabin and conversation lead us in a whole other direction I did not expect. Needless to say it turned out he had mesh in his inventory but just didn’t know how to do it all. I would have kept dating him regardless because just like in rl appearance is only a small part (of course one has to be visually attractive even a bit to ones eye) but our conversations and time spent together told me way more about the wonderful man he is, something I would have never found out if I worried about just the way he looks.
I’ve come to learn in SL that those who worry solely about mesh bodies are the ones who seem the loneliness.
My advice is to have conversation with someone, anyone, and when you find out they could be your person or part of your slife in any way you can then help/talk them into becoming mesh 😂