At this moment:
Let inventory completely load, then waited in cloud form to see what happens: No result.
Rebaked after about half an hour, 4 times: No result (avatar showed up as she is described in my first post).
Tried to put on a skin someone send me: No result...says my shape and clothes haven't load so I can't change my appearance.
I'll keep on trying.
P.S.: The only thing I seem to wear is called Ruthhairfix, and it is the only hairfix I got.