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    Account numbers

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    What's the official statement,thats  saying someone can have how many account numbers?

    TOS may be a little outdated because I think that should be greatly upped. Some folks have 20+ and one of them is using them to harass me on.I'd just like to know what the official number is? thank you.

     

    Harassment and slandering

    in Abuse and Griefing

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    On 5/11/2019 at 9:47 AM, Jessica4u2 said:

    A year late but whatever. Legally, slander can't be proved unless you suffer some sort of damage, like financial, business or personal reputation, provided it was a good reputation in the first place.Normally it involves a substantial monetary loss.

    I am currently being endlessly harassed by a psycho, who is now sending 1L messages. At least I'm making something off it. She's also made an alt using my SL name with a slight variation. I have sent dozens of LL abuse reports for legitimate TOS violations, all have been ignored. At the end of the day, this is a game, that's it.

    Linden Lab could care a less if you contribute to their bottom line while the abuser contributes nothing but grief. Linden Lab is a joke and they care nothing about your complaints. I have lost so much respect for them.

    Of all the above responses, Pixieplumb sums it up the best " You see, you're wasting your time and energy on a stupid argument about a game.  Move on, dude, let it go. "

    Edit- My traffic has substantially increased since this nut job was banned. Yay.

    WHY CAN'T THINGS BE SOLVED THIS EASILY FOR ME?

    -eye twitch- 

     

    What did you say to get help with people defaming you etc?

    is SL going to die ?

    in General Discussion Forum

    Posted

    THEY need to focus on THIS World more then Sansar. instead.they need to implant new graphics on SL and stop being memory hogs x.x ; I love SL but I would rather have SL as it is instead of Sansar trying to be something like every other world. they need to improve this. not let it falter.

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    Seeking a well paid Job!

    in Inworld Employment

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    Hello, Some of you may know me and some may not, I'm a long term member with a full bento avatar and a customized shape I'm proud of. I'm seeking a Drama as free can be, (because as some of you know I don't want in,) I'm a hard worker, I've worked at several places, I just want a safe ADULT rated place to work.I'm verifiable. I'd like to begin working and learning how to properly do a  card as well.I used to host and do other things a lot. I'd like a place that just is accepting that I'm willing to put the time in. PLEASE CONTACT ME IN WORLD! !!!! I barely respond here despite recent issues. I just want to move on and enjoy my sl. can you blame me? I'd like to put my mind and objects where I can be needed. 

     

    I also do Graphics and logos. but I want something that'd keep my mind occupied :).

    Hello; I would , like non judgemental friends.

    in Make Friends

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    On 7/23/2019 at 5:18 PM, taeyeonblue said:

    The best way to put drama behind you is to just leave in it in the past. If you are worried about it being drudged up by a future friend the address the issue only if they ask you about it. Other than that just move on and let bygones be bygones. I have no idea what kind of rumors you are referring to and I don't think most people care - most people on the internet have had some drama attached to their name; falsely or not. No biggie.

    Having said all that, if you are okay with be friends with a relative newbie my IMs are always open for conversations. 

    Of course! Feel free to message me in world ! Samanthaprater resident.

    Hello; I would , like non judgemental friends.

    in Make Friends

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    On 9/16/2019 at 12:16 AM, LuxDeSolaris said:

    I've had people slander me six ways to sunday over the years. Any negative opinion about me is someone else's hang up, and not mine.
    The truth is, we all judge whether we admit to it or not. All we can do is make a solid effort to become more aware of it, and remember what it feels like when we ourselves are under the microscope.
     

    As far as making friends are concerned, I have no real advice to offer you there. I'm a loner with (almost) impossibly high standards. Those standards will not take a steep drop because others refuse to meet me in the middle.

     

    Amen Friend!

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    Hello; I would , like non judgemental friends.

    in Make Friends

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    On 7/24/2019 at 11:01 AM, Madelaine McMasters said:

    I learned a long time ago to apologize for my ignorance when sitting down to dinner with natives in a foreign place, and ask them to share some of their eating traditions. Should I ever visit South Asia, I'll be prepared. My grandmother taught me how to swallow air so I can belch like... a South Asian?

     

    Samantha, don't look back while moving forward, that's how you get into accidents. To set preconditions on future friendships is, in a way, prejudging.  It's also pointless, as the excluding condition you've identified (being judgmental) will not be identified by anyone having it.

    Stop by a Sunday Breakfast or the Forum Cartel Hangout sometime. You'll meet a lot of nice people, or possibly (though rarely) me.

    Good luck, have fun!

    Hugs,
    Maddy

     

    Hugs! I've moved forward, but I also do appreciate this quote. I stood up for myself, and I just now would enjoy more friends, I let go of my fear of being judged, and also judgement. 

    Investor Team Member / leads wanted for Dystopian Dark Fantasy Steampunk Sim Roleplay, Wanted

    in Inworld Employment

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    Sorry for the long term title, HELLO You may know me you may not, but I am SamanthaPrater In-world, Welcome ! I have been working on my sim for eight year's and it is finally getting built. My SL  Aunt is helping out and she's doing a fantastic job. I am FINALLY Doing this sim I've been talking about for years as well. We could use another investor in the sim, as I have had three sims stolen from me, I refuse to do another Co owner. I want someone who is good with working with role players, understands that this is an Eight-teen Plus sim, and want's a new roleplay to flourish. Furries are encouraged to join. We would love multiples that want to help a new sim like this show up, and stay up. PLEASE  KEEP IN MIND, I am NOT a new role player. I DO come with people, all we need is another person (S) to help us. PLEASE DIRECT MESSAGE me IN WORLD. I want a Free-form world, that people can have fun, and remember what kind of roleplayer they want to be. It's been too stressful, to seriously held and it turned into a naughty sim very quick for many of us. I want to stress out it, so please read the sim title when around. 

     

    Roleplaying is a passion of mine, I've been doing this since age NINE on other sites, etc, and now I can create it visually. with help. I've been saving up, pieces for eight years, and more. and I want people to  join our team as well.The Lore is based on the idea of portals, but it is SO MUCH MORE than what's been done, I wanted to change the aspect of what people expect and I thought of EVERY SINGLE RULE I could think of to make people feel warm, welcome and safe in my sim. 

     

    I do not do Co -Owner, too many hands in the kitchen is bad. Each of us has a place, when it comes to investing you'll get perks in the sim, if you've always wanted to do something, ASK me don't demand it, I am friendly despite all that has happened to me, I am curious, and I want ideas thrown at me . I want people like that when we work together. so please, do not be afraid to Direct message me  in-world, as I barely pay attention to the forums? thanks! I just have one need- More team members. :).And if they want to invest in over all items, please do. Investors to me want to see a sim thrive, that has been there , not change it. I will send in all of the information on the plot in world, etc, I want to bring back what ROLE PLAYING should be. FUN, creativity, imaginative. story, friends. This sim is not met for children at all, and Free-form will it be. it is NOT  a Naughty SIM at ALL. PLEASE read the note-card of the rules when there.IF THEY DO NOT SUIT YOU, we aren't going to work together,well.

    The Short Rule's : 

    I want a realistic 1875 Environment. The below is not acceptable. If you love role playing, Steampunk and more, please message ! thanks! also if the title sounds interesting, please message anyways:). Again, I don't mean to repeat myself, but I don't like having a  Co owner due to three stolen sims. I want people who want to see THIS idea happen. <3. thank you! PLEASE MESSAGE IN WORLD. NOT HERE. Samanthaprater Resident.

    Reading the rules is a must in this sim. You are not allowed: Kemono Avatars, anime avatars, un-realistic furs, Cartoon characters, child-like and or small immature avatars, they must be adult in shape and characteristics. No public nudity under any circumstances will be accepted. 

    Hello; I would , like non judgemental friends.

    in Make Friends

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    On 8/14/2019 at 7:31 AM, RaeLeeH said:

    I'm with you on this... I'm not a stranger to drama and I don't think any of us are. Online especially there is too much room for miscommunication and hurt feelings. We seem to do it all the time without even meaning to. But like bullies on the school playground there are those that stir drama on purpose for reasons only they know.

    My mother used to say "If they're picking on you, they're leaving some other poor *delete expletive* alone." I'm not sure what that was supposed to do for my self-esteem (except foster empathy to people I didn't know perhaps) but it didn't solve the issue. What it does reinforce perhaps is that bullying or drama is always there in some form or another, be that in real life or online, and has been since time immemorial. Unfortunately like @Alwin Alcott stated almost everyone judges even when they say they don't. It's the human condition. We ascribe labels to everything and everyone and judge accordingly. It doesn't make it right or wrong, that's just the way it is. The only thing that you can control is what you say and do. You can't control how others hear your words, how they interpret them (though you can certainly influence factors), what they think or say or do, or how they will react to them. Some things are just out of your control.

    @taeyeonblue makes a good suggestion. While it's hard to let go of the frustration of having this drama continue to percolate around you (trust me, I know), the best thing you can do for yourself as much as you're able is to try and put it behind you. You can't control it. You can't compete. Responding to drama usually only incites more drama and escalates the situation. It gives the drama-mongers exactly what they want. The more you focus on it or let it consume you or control your decisions the more they take from you and the more they win. So let it go. Even bringing the subject up or addressing it with others will allow the wound to keep festering. I don't suggest you lie at all but don't be overly quick to bring it up, and if and when it does don't dwell. It's in the past. Leave it there and keep walking. And while I say this it's something I'm teaching myself too so it's a learning exercise.

    One more thing that won't be a popular opinion but I'll share it anyway, is learn (if you can) not to wear your heart on your sleeve so openly. As the world moves progressively online cyber-bullying especially is going to increase. That means more drama or the potential for it when you log online. Meeting new people is great but try not to be too trusting. Don't get too attached (or at least not too quick), don't take everything you hear as gospel, and most importantly don't share more than you are comfortable in losing (whether that's time, effort, or emotions). There are some great people in the world, and some that are just out to cause problems. Safeguarding won't stop feeling hurt or betrayed completely, but it might perhaps just lessen the effect should something unforeseen happen again. And we never know what's around the corner.

    Make new friends and reach out, absolutely, just be careful who you let in. Not everyone is out to be your friend. Not everyone wants to hurt you on purpose. Trust your instincts and the best of luck. And stay away from drama websites! :) 

    I have actually learned to shut my heart off, <3 I hope to meet you as well as the rest! I know this and learned that the hard way, I have something called RED FLAGS I trust in now <3. please don't be afraid to message me in world.

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    Hello; I would , like non judgemental friends.

    in Make Friends

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    On 8/14/2019 at 11:48 AM, VanillaLovelace said:

    ... and you should not wait too long, if you identify someone as a potential troublemaker: Make a hard cut and move those people to your „blocked“ list. Life is too short to waste your time with false friends.  

    Learned that one the hard way, my block list is now 449 ish. x.x 

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    Hello; I would , like non judgemental friends.

    in Make Friends

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    Feel free to send me an IM ! I don't bite, usually am in world ! :). I don't check this forum much . lol. Fart jokes. <3.

     

    SamanthaPrater Resident 

     

    I am someone who's been hurt a lot both in SL, and RL, and I take SL as an extension of my RL. because of the things it has given me, I am a hopeful optimistic type of person.Into Comics, and Female, I also voice and on both skype and discord, can cam. :). Also; I DID Get INTJ-A. lol. so INTJ-A is my personality :P. half right!

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