You sound exactly like the two cases of manipulative, sociopathic, psychotic types that Lindel Labs seems to love bending over and pandering to.
1) Had a certain male that wanted to do the pixel sex thing. When I said no, he went forth and tried to obtain my real-life name, address, phone number by paying someone to do it. When that obviously failed, the certain male came crying to me about how I owned him $500usd for the failed attempt while he ran around second life telling everyone how "mean" I was. Even went as far as to report me to Liden Labs because that incident and all his IM's are now posted on a blog. Not sorry to say when you are the aggressor you do not get to be victim.
2) More recently had two furies come up with some vicious and slanderous stuff, even going as far as to threaten my wife's, my son's and my life all because I would not pixel sleep with one of them.
So yeah, when you say stuff like this, I feel not for you but those you claim are your aggressors.