Honeysuckle Humby

Well, she really seemed to enjoy dressing up in the female clothes I sent her and she was interested in babies, makes me think she is a girl really. I realise that people aren't always who they say they are, but I think she is a young girl nonetheless. So, should I still be there to help her, or unfriend her and leave her to her own devices? I know she isn't my responsibility, but if she is just too naive, maybe she needs some guidance/help?

I came across a very new avatar to SL late last night. She was wanting help how to play the game (her words). We chatted in IM for a few minutes and then she offered me friendship. I accepted because she had no-one else to help her and tell her how we do stuff here etc.. I tried to TP her to my sim but she could not come. So she sent me a TP to her. We met and she asked what to do first!! She asked how old I was in rl and I replied that I was not so young. I asked how old she was if she didn't mind telling me and she told me she was 16 in rl. The next thing she asked me was is it right that you can have sex in sl and how do you do it!!! I told her that as she was 16 she would not really be able to access things to do with having sex in sl and she can find out about all that in a couple of years or so. She wanted to know if I had a boyfriend here but I did not say whether I did or not as I felt she might want to know more details of how to have sex here. I gave her some clothes and she promptly wore a box on her before I could tell her how to rez etc. I told her there were all sorts of things she can do and learn in sl before she even thinks about sex or babies (as she asked aboout having babies in sl too). I suggested to her that perhaps it would be wiser to get to know someone a little before offering or accepting friendship. And I suggested that perhaps it would be wiser to not ask people she has only just met about their rl. People will let her know what they want her to know about their rl if they want. Because she wanted to get out there and find places to dance (and meet boys to get sex) because she was bored, I told her to be careful where she went and what she did. I haven't really had anything to do with teens in sl (not knowing they were a teen in rl) so don't know places to suggest she can explore and learn where she will be safe so to speak. I told her I would try to find her a place where she could use it as a base and where she could go back to if she needed to escape from anywhere or anyone. Anyone know of a place she could have as her home in sl? She has no linden dollars and doesn't have rl money to buy linden dollars. I gave her a little money just to start her off. (This is not something I would normally do, but I thought it might help her get started here). I am concerned about her as when I told her that she would be limited where she can go as she is only 16 in rl, she then asked me how she could change the details she registered with so she could say an older age!! This makes me think that she will now tell people she meets that she is older than she is, especially as she wants to meet boys and have sex, so this could maybe get someone in trouble as she is really underage in sl. So, should I stay friends with her and offer guidance and help while she learns things in sl? Is there anything else I could/should do to help her? Many thanks. Honeysuckle Humby