This is a love story with a twist. Harry and I met 19 November 2014 in an SL shop while we were waiting for our initials to come up on some free items. He tried to obtain a free item and couldn't, so I asked him it he had joined the group (he hadn't). A few minutes later, he asked if I sailed, which I had just recently started and posted it on my Profile. So, I took him sailing and careened off of every neighbor's boat dock and the bank, all while telling him to pass the champagne because I sail better the more I consume. Well, apparently that made him laugh and he kept contacting me every day to go 'sailing'. He told me right away that he is married with no kids in RL. I exchanged the same information, that I'm married, with no kids in RL. We agreed that we would never leave our spouses and would be friends only, which seemed safe, since I am in Arizona, USA and he is in Germany. I met Harry's wife, who is also on SL, and she kept 'nagging' us to marry, and so we partnered/married on 25 EU/24 USA December 2014. After two years, he asked me to come to Germany to meet him and his wife. I flew to Germany in July 2016 and stayed with them for 6 weeks. It worked out so well, and Harry's wife and I became such good friends, that I have been going to Germany every summer and staying with them for three months. For the first two months, Harry and I go camping and it is like a honeymoon every time. The last three weeks of my visit, my husband comes over and we travel around Europe. Of course, we pay all of our expenses during our stay and, as an added bonus, my husband fixes their computers ; D
Harry and I had no intention of having a serious RL relationship, but there it is. We love each other as if it is our first and only love. It is the most amazing and beautiful relationship we both ever had. Just to clarify, it is not a four-some. Both of our spouses accept that Harry and I are lovers and that the four of us are friends.