It is not Linden that creates the problem, it is the shop you bough it from, or the designer that caused this.
Maybe if you send a note card to the designer of the clothing the designer can give you permission to 'both' wear the clothing.
Try it, what do you have to lose ?
but... Most good designers, who put a lot of work into their product.....Want you to buy items separately. While it is called Unisex, meaning it can be worn by a male or a female alike, you still have to pay for it twice. The male has to pay for it and the female has to pay for it. A couple for example could not buy it and then wear it one day as male, then the next day the female wears it.
No, each avatar must have this 'unisex' item in his/her own inventory.
That is how life is in Second Life.
It makes sense if you think about it.
If I were a designer and spend a lot of time on making good clothing..........I would want to get paid from each Avi that wears it later. NO! I would not want to sell it once and then have it passed around to everybody.
Too much work for little money.
Think about ! Please don't get mad.... It is the way things are......You can not change it !
Rider