"typical american behaviour"? really? *rolls eyes*
Anyhoo...
My settings are:
Bounce 12, 14, 12, 80
Sway: 8, 9, 8, 63
Advanced Breast Parameters: 30, 12, 30
I don't know what I'm REALLY doin with these settings lol but after playing around with them I'm mostly satisfied with the results. They don't seem out of control with these settings (altho they do seem to bounce a bit much when standing up. Mebbe need to turn up the dampening). I DO have a small chested AV so this might not be the right settings for you if you have huge bewbies.