Its an assassins game, a game of killing or be killed, sieging land, a role playing game.it sounds like your playing the wrong game in sl, someone that whines over a little chat and can't take it and whines that its abuse, well file a claim chat with the group owners and /or grow up and find another game in sl. because your not going to last long in the assassins game this way. i have played this game for over a year now and i have seen many like you come and go, whine over a little chat, remember its a game a ROLE playing game.