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  1. Thank you all for your comments, the good .....the bad....the indifferent........and those with some advice......yes i do have a lot to learn about posting in forums.......Here i am thinking that a forum was a place where one can share their views....not a place where the views you share must be the same views of those who read them.....To have a specific view on a topic does not make it the wrong view or the right view...it is just ones opinion or observation, as seen through the eyes and experience of the person writing it. I premise this next comment by saying, this is not specific to the people who commented on the last of my posts......why is it that people are so quickly triggered when they read , see or hear something that they don't agree with and then feel compelled to write a vitriolic response....as if to have taken an affront at the mere fact that someone shared a view different than theirs....... or perhaps this is just the sign of the times......."I am glad i have a thick skin"......turns to think of the next topic i can write about in order to trigger those that may find offence in the smallest detail.
  2. Thank you for your comments and responses and yes i did post this same post into a number of threads which were discussing similar topics, after all why wouldn't I want to share my views after all that is what a forum is all about.
  3. Well of course love has a lot to do with it, but so do some many other things, so i thought i would post my thoughts and experience. I have been in sl for over 10 years and over that time i have seen different types of relationships, some good many not so good, in as mush as they develop at a very fast rate and just as fast they dissolve. However i can only really comment on my own relationship, which i have had in sl for 9 years, the key to our long relationship has always been communication, making sure that we understand what each wants, being response to changing needs and treating each other with respect. One of the key factors to our long relationship in sl is that we have an open relationship, this was very much a mutually agreed decision and one made with an understanding of what ou relationship is and being very secure in it. We have seen many couples who come from an insecure base with their relationship and as a result trust gets eroded and suspicion and concern that one partner may leave to be with someone else they meet. While you may be thinking that an open relationship in sl means that one is just looking to get their rocks off with someone esle and remain in the relationship....for us this is not the case, although of course this is a factor it is not the only factor. We had seen many relationships dissolve due to one partner being on less than the other yet expect the partner who is on to effectively not socialise or leave their sim, in our experience this just does not work, people have to be given the freedom to explore and to do things in sl when alone, when you are both on you spend time together. Again this comes back to trust and feeling secure, there should be no issue for your partner to do what they will with others, it makes for a more complete and fulfilled experience. That being said, again this is about communication and setting expectations at the beginning of the relationship and when i mean at the beginning i do mean at the beginning, as clinical as this may seem, like a prenup, it is a way to determine comparability and to determine clear boundaries and to assess if this is the relationship you really want. Many people come together only to find out they have different expectations which they have kept to themselves which for many can result in a very difficult and hurtful end. So why place this post and what is it i am wanting to really say.....well here it is When you meet someone you like and consider a more formal relationship in SL, have the conversation and assess what that looks like Ongoing communication, relationships can become stale very quickly, have these conversations, are you happy, is there anything we would like to change or try. Take it slowly, for the right person it is worth it lastly, start your relationship with trust, it is easy to be cynical and to think all people will cheat or lie, however while some may end that way, do not start with this in your mind well that is some of my thoughts on the subject, for what it is worth
  4. interesting reading the various posts on this subject and of course SL relationships mean different things to different people. I have been in sl for over 10 years and over that time i have seen different types of relationships, some good many not so good, in as mush as they develop at a very fast rate and just as fast they dissolve. However i can only really comment on my own relationship, which i have had in sl for 9 years, the key to our long relationship has always been communication, making sure that we understand what each wants, being response to changing needs and treating each other with respect. One of the key factors to our long relationship in sl is that we have an open relationship, this was very much a mutually agreed decision and one made with an understanding of what ou relationship is and being very secure in it. We have seen many couples who come from an insecure base with their relationship and as a result trust gets eroded and suspicion and concern that one partner may leave to be with someone else they meet. While you may be thinking that an open relationship in sl means that one is just looking to get their rocks off with someone esle and remain in the relationship....for us this is not the case, although of course this is a factor it is not the only factor. We had seen many relationships dissolve due to one partner being on less than the other yet expect the partner who is on to effectively not socialise or leave their sim, in our experience this just does not work, people have to be given the freedom to explore and to do things in sl when alone, when you are both on you spend time together. Again this comes back to trust and feeling secure, there should be no issue for your partner to do what they will with others, it makes for a more complete and fulfilled experience. That being said, again this is about communication and setting expectations at the beginning of the relationship and when i mean at the beginning i do mean at the beginning, as clinical as this may seem, like a prenup, it is a way to determine comparability and to determine clear boundaries and to assess if this is the relationship you really want. Many people come together only to find out they have different expectations which they have kept to themselves which for many can result in a very difficult and hurtful end. So why place this post and what is it i am wanting to really say.....well here it is When you meet someone you like and consider a more formal relationship in SL, have the conversation and assess what that looks like Ongoing communication, relationships can become stale very quickly, have these conversations, are you happy, is there anything we would like to change or try. Take it slowly, for the right person it is worth it lastly, start your relationship with trust, it is easy to be cynical and to think all people will cheat or lie, however while some may end that way, do not start with this in your mind well that is some of my thoughts on the subject, for what it is worth
  5. hello Millie willow, saw your post and thought i would ask how did you get on finding a couple. Just so you know my wife and i were considering having a woman join our 9 year relationship, while we have not previously been involved in a poly relationship, we have had an open relationship for 9 years in sl. Feel free to look us up and have a chat.
  6. Background- Shane and Kaijah We have both been in SL for over 10 years and as a couple for more than 9 years. Our relationship is one of openness and a willingness to explore each other and to seek out different experiences. We have been swinging in SL for many years and enjoy the company of others, when enjoying adult fun. We are exclusive voice based and enjoy nothing more than spending time meeting others and socialising on voice. Apart from our social lifestyle in SL, we also run very successful businesses and projects and consider ourselves socially minded in the way we approach what we do in SL. Our time in SL is essentially between the hours of 9am slt to 12.30pm slt (changes in daylight saving) between Sunday through to Thursday -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- What are we looking for? We are seeking a woman to join us in our relationship. Must be able to voice between 9am and 12.30pm SLT between Sunday to Thursday (of course we understand there will be times where this is not possible) While some may refer to this as a pet or submissive, we are not looking for a traditional submissive. What we are seeking is someone to hang out with us and get involved with some of the things we do and also to join us in adult playtime. The type of relationship we are seeking with this third person will provide freedom for this person to pursue their own interests, however they will have somewhere and someone to hang out with. So if you are wondering through SL without purpose or with a lack of fulfilment and would like to be part of a relationship with fun and excitement, then let’s talk. You can contact either Shane Foresight or Kaijah Chrome
  7. There are a few that i can think of.......Frolic, Smittens, FMD, Babygirl Daddydom....i am sure there are many more
  8. Looking to have a function created which would operate as follows Avatar would click on prim in world Avatar would select a tag from a menu (same tags as listed in associated group) Avatar ID and tag data would then be passed to the group Automation would then locate member and change tag accordingly. I understand that a bot maybe required in order to facilitate this process, if you have an interest in this please contact me to discuss In world- Shane Foresight
  9. This is notice to clubs or venues looking for a DJ with a difference. Introducing DJ PIC (Your Politically Incorrect Comedy DJ) if you’re looking for entertainment with a difference then let’s discuss a DJ PIC show for your venue. DJ Pic delivers a mix of music and comedy in this power packed show. Show comes complete with DJ, Host, Music, Comedy and giveaways …. Warning this is rated A for Adult and F for Funny If you are interested in hiring DJ PIC Contact Shane foresight to discuss a DJ PIC show for your venue
  10. We have designed a new table game for SL and are seeking interest from scripters to code the required script. If you have had experience in SL table games, in particular algorithms using dice in sl, then this new game should be something that will interest you. To discuss this project and receive a scope regarding the game play and other rules, please im me Must be available to take on this work and have access to reliable communication Contact Shane Foresight in world to discuss
  11. ENT SL Radio has a very simple premise when it comes to the content and programming for the station, that is if you have an idea and want to take that idea and convert it into a radio show then ENT SL Radio will provide you with the backing to make it happen. Second Life is all about expression, imagination and socialisation, in bringing entertainment to the masses, the management at ENT SL Radio believe that the station can provide an opportunity, not only to provide entertainment to the listener but the freedom for the creative individual to perform. The great thing is that you don’t have to be a professional, you don’t need to have had experience to join us, just the ideas, the enthusiasm and the drive to make it happen. In this way ENT SL Radio is the people’s radio and will continue to offer this approach now and into the future. We currently broadcast over 20 live shows a week, these range from DJ's to information based shows to light comedy and entertainment formats. We also assist clubs and groups to grow through running many of the live shows at their venues bring ing people together, a collective will to acheive. So if you have the idea and the drive then contact us with your idea and let’s see where your idea will take you and us in the pursuit of providing entertainment to the masses. Website- http://entslradio69.webs.com/
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