Well, I am not sure where you may or may not have been in your searches. Belleza and LaVie have great skins for males and both do give out freebies....however you need to be a group member of each and there is a joining fee for each one but well worth it as they are high quality IMHO.
Also, check with male fashion groups to help point you to lucky chairs, lucky boards, midnight mania's or hunts containing many items from skins, shapes, clothes, and just about everything else you may want or need all for free!
One group you may want to join (fee free) to help with this is Menstuff, check my groups on my profile inworld to join up. Ivy and the gang will get you sorted out right quick
Also, here are a few webpages that might be of interest, check them often as they update frequently:
http://ffform.blogspot.com/
http://slfreebdollarbluckychairhunts.blogspot.com/
http://slhunts.wordpress.com/
http://slfreebiehunters.blogspot.com/
just to name a few.
Hope this helps!
Drake