Your yelling (I mean that figurativly) at each other about what mesh will and won't do. The people you should be talking to is LL. The beta testers asked for more features that would allow resizing mesh to an avatar, but LL decided it was too much work fo rthe initial rollout and back burnered this for a future release. Tell LL you want to see this feature. The creators want it, the merchants want it, and the consumers want it. So stop bickering amongst yourselves over these issues and instead talk to LL and request development on this.