Hello Sam1 Bellisserian,
To better understand, no one is forced to use the contents of the Black List, of course you can change it or just use the ORB labelled "Yours" in this Orb you are completely on your own,
and I don't think so, a lot of people think so, over a period of 4 years we know who does and who doesn't, the Orb is based on NC lists you are not forced to use these lists. Furthermore, my avatar name is not my RL name so if someone is listed with the name "Donald Trump" and he keeps visiting your place when you ban him and he ends up at the neighbour's place, then it can be assumed that he is following you. Don't worry, I do this very conscientiously.
Kind regards
Ps. Unfortunately, I have already reached my number of posts for this day but please feel free to contact me inworld. Thank you