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1 hour ago, Missbehavin Neva said:

If you are referring to the stilt at P.S  - She asked me to let her know if should get bored with any of my stilts to let her know.  I told her I would but I also told here there was someone else that was on my list and if this person no longer interested I would tell her. I wasn't 100 % happy with this spot since I was on my friends list for a different spot I was more interested in the same general area where my other homes were located. I was ready to abandon and I asked her if she was still wanting a stilt in this area and she said yes.  I showed her the spot and she liked it.   We worked out a time that would work for both of us and I let her know when I was going to ABANDON this house.  I she told me when she was ready... I abandoned it and she got it. It took a couple of attempts and we did it. It brings me great joy to see when someone can get a house they want or are looking for.   I also got my Thank you  you after she got it.  That wallpaper didn't get abandoned and caught with the house either.  You guys need to know the whole story before assuming. 

 

Thank you for the clarification.  I don't have any problem with people trying to pass houses onto their friends per se.  I do however get annoyed when I see said people stating time after time that others should use the land page and be patient blah blah all the while their in the DM's of house hunters asking for the houses they don't want!  

 

[Alts and Linden Homes]

1 hour ago, karynmaria said:

Agree with you 100%.    I don't even like to post any nice abandons I do get anymore due to all the negativity.

 Next you'll be telling us that you also got your prime stilt pier property by pure chance and it wasn't also passed on from a GOH'er.  

 

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8 hours ago, PrudenceAnton said:

I am friends with many people and an acquaintance with even more people in Bellisseria. Keeping busy with the community, I have not deviled into the GoH trend. I did in fact, get a home in a nice location, that was abandoned. And I have offered up nice locations I was leaving to friends and strangers alike. People have a right to be upset/annoyed. And if they choose to be snarky about it, that's their prerogative, too. Though unfortunately, it often ends up getting a thread locked down when a discussion is no longer a discussion but an argument.

Am I in a fortunate position? Choosing to be friends with people, no matter who they are, is a kindness I can afford and in turn, I am fortunate for having more friends. I find in life, a kindness, a forgiveness, being more understanding and less judgmental keeps my wellbeing in a good place and extends my desire to share the great things about the Bellisseria community I have discovered with others.

Yeah!  She abandoned it and you caught it.  They even left you the wallpaper for it!  People stood about on that region for weeks waiting to get a place and yet you just happened upon an abandon which you didn't post in the Beautiful Abandons thread thanking said person yet you're such a kind person. 🤔  People can believe what they want but I know what I saw and I have the receipts.  

Perhaps you'll be bestowed some sort of Bellisseria sainthood for all your good deeds. 😇  

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1 hour ago, PrudenceAnton said:

@Matthieu Quander is right. This topic has been addressed in multiple threads and they usually get locked down because of snark, then a new one pops up. Topics are great to have discussions of common interest. One can only hope people will continue a thread with civility, even when they disagree about the topic's content or opposing opinions and views.

People are only snarking because they are annoyed/upset which they have every right to be.  Not everyone is in the fortunate position you are where they are passed a home in a prime location.  Don't deny it I watched it happen.  A large amount of alts does help claim homes but so does being friends with the main GOH'er.