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    $99 problems

    in General Discussion Forum

    Posted · Edited by EveniosReturns38

    i just think its wrong to hide the price increase and the non-premium restrictions added and the transactions fee increase to the bottom of the post and make it look like "good news everyone....full regions cost less!"

    but i dont get a ton of offline ims so i guess no big deal to me.

     

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    What are some of your pet peeves?

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    3 minutes ago, Amina Sopwith said:

    Evenios, have you been to Gor? I think you'll really like it there. They're your kind of people. Don't listen to them if they're rude or anything, they have their own culture and they're basically foreigners with ways different to our own. It just means they like your attitude and you should keep doing it. Remember there are a lot of Gor sims, so make sure you visit all of them and stay in each one for ages so you can really get a feel for it and express yourself fully. Also, if you want to attract all the most truly, genuinely submissive women there, then wear some thonged men's swimwear. Sounds mad, I know, but it's a secret dress code over there and it signals that you're a real, true Dominant who really knows what he's doing. Don't pay any attention if anyone objects, it's all part of the test. Good luck.

    i hint /sarcasm.

    Gor is horrible lol.

    Does the way your avatar look affect forming bonds?

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    yes and no.

    there are still people running around from the old days in very very old outdated avatars that still are having fun and enjoying themselves.

    however for the most part it seems most are in mesh. and while i hated mesh to start with because i thought it was laggy (it still is and often can take forever to load) i find now that with the right mesh setup you can make a pretty awesome avatar (IF you put the real time and effort into it).

    and many people now days apparently wont even talk to you unless you have a mesh avie. soo in my view there is nothing wrong with investing a bit into that.

    but if you want to run around in an outdated avatar with that horrible "linden hair" when second life first came out.  your totally free to do that and im sure you can still make friends in doing so.

    but its def worthwhile to at least consider checking out mesh options 😉 if you plan to stay in second life long term there is nothing wrong with doing so.

    for me im finally taking the big plunge into the world of mesh avatars and i wont be looking back! actually i think for me i had the trouble of getting into drama (as evidence in previous posts)  and i think for me a bit more of an investment might convince me to have a bit more patience for second life and make better connections and ignore the ones i should let alone ;-).

     

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    What are some of your pet peeves?

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    1 hour ago, IvyLarae said:

    (I will be doing quotes the old fashion way because for some reason when I go through the pages, all the progress I have already typed gets deleted )
    "- when someone posts their lists of pet peeves and you are tempted to personally attack them for it.

    good advice for us all."
    But Evenio's I believe you did try to attack me just last night, but let me explain why I think that. Last night around 7:30 PM SLT I was checking my emails and I seen a got a slew of offlines from someone, who I assume seen my latest comment on this thread and chose to contact me inworld instead of the thread.
    The offlines were:
    (For discretion reasons I changed this womans name to Betty lol)
    [20:09] Betty: i got a question for you
    [20:09] Betty: how can you "know" when a dom is not really a dom. when in all reality your not even really a sub since its all roleplay to you?
    [20:09] Betty: and suprise suprise given your Rl age you likely dont know the first thing about what actually being submissive is.  ;-).

    (For context reasons I will state that I am 24 in RL but I still don't get what that has to do with anything lol)

    [20:09] Betty: just saying. But hey have fun "pretending" to be a submissive . 😉 off you go.
    [20:09] Betty: oh and btw. if you try to respond i will be ignoring you because i can already predict just exactly your responce would be. But thought id say that anyways. Have fun!

    my responses to this was: 
    [20:10] Ivy RαєBєl Sαrαѕwαti (ivylarae): So.....you ask a question and then proceed in telling me not to bother answering......so what exactly did you get out of messaging me to begin with?
    [20:13] Ivy RαєBєl Sαrαѕwαti (ivylarae): I mean, you may be older than me, I don't know at this point and I don't really care, I've met 50 year old idiots before, but it seems highly immature to be like 'I gotta question but I don't actually want you to answer it"
    [20:35] Ivy RαєBєl Sαrαѕwαti (ivylarae): But to answer your question ( Yes I am going to anyway to spite you) Yes I do roleplay but to assume I am not a real submissive and to assume that I " Think its all roleplay" when A. You don't know me, you have never even spoken to me before now and B. There is no right or wrong way to be a submissive, he depends entirely on the individuals. What isn't a submissive to some people is someone else's ideal submissive. What a Submissive is to me, is someone who cares enough about someone and trusts them enough, to give them your all, I think in some ways its a lot like dating in some aspects. For one being you love your dom/ domme to some level or you wouldn't submit to them to begin with, its takes a good deal of dedication to make the D/S relationship grow. Of course theres a lot of kink *****ery involved depending on what both are into but you feel safe enough to explore those thing with your dom. In SL I think its a good deal different then it would be in RL, I will admit I don't know because I have never explored BDSM or D/S relationships before in RL, in SL its more what you both are willing to explore within the confines of an online relationship. Now I very much would enjoy having a conversation with you but the level of maturity you displayed (Despite you being older than me I assume) I doubt that will happen. I hope you find more productive things to do with your time online and I wish you good luck in your future endeavors. And welcome back to SL ❤️
    [20:47] Ivy RαєBєl Sαrαѕwαti (ivylarae): I don't care if you answer any of the above, but will you atleast tell me where you found me at please? because this was all very out of the blue
    [20:47] Second Life: User not online - message will be stored and delivered later.

    Now the reason I believe this was Evenios on an alt was something he posted in the loooooong rant a few minutes ago was eerily similiar to something Betty said:


    "case in point claiming to know exactly who is a "Dom" and who isnt...when you yourself just roleplay.  Its not real to you. its a game.   To many people here myself included second life isnt just a "game".  A lot of people have disablities or rl situations where they cannot quite have the life they want right now (of course im sure your brilliant reaction would be to call those people "losers".)
    yet for someone who likely doesnt have an actual submissive bone in their body how i wonder can you actually determine whos a "Dom and whos not" when yourself arnt even actually submissive?  Blaringly obvious that too. "


    Not only that but you also typo on the same spelling they did in your shorter statement when you said:


    " but i oh so thank you for your lovely responces.  and i think for the future ill keep my opinions free from these forums lest a group of you make a notecard of every thing i say you dont agree with and pass it around to all your friends (been there too)."
    If this is you, I am thoroughly amused that you got on a week old alt and contacted me inworld where you tried to gaslight and belittle me over stuff you seen on my forum and on my profile. If you had actually tried talking to me instead I could of told you all that I do know about being a submissive, but instead you chose to come at me with your mind already made up about me and talk to me like I'm some child your scolding

    Hmm could it be someone other then myself didnt like the considending rude attacks you made towards my listing of pet peeves when YOUR the one that asked for them in the first place?

    So what not content to attack me on the forums you now insist on harassing me via BOTH private message on the forums AND in second life?  Funny how you told that person that "you dont know me" and yet your behavior so far has been 100 percent predictable.  and i love how you just messaged me "HI Evenios" with a smiley face like you actually want to have a friendly conversation after belittling me here.  And apparently sooo unable to take any form of criticism you just HAVE to know if it was me or not.

    Im not the only one who saw your responses you know. and since all your going to do is goat me into having a conversation with you just so you can stick your unwanted opinion in my face. Im now officially ignoring you.   Had a feeling youd eventually would (or someone else) harass me in IM at some point.   Move along child.  Nothing more to see here.

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    What are some of your pet peeves?

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    I just want to submit to you all as evidence of the state second life is in lately by all of the wonderful responses i just got from my list.  I would think that at least one or two people would have responded with "omg i know exactly what you mean!"

    but instead not only was my list atttacked, i was personally attacked as well (even going so far as one lovely person saying they would block me in world) for sharing my own experiences.

    Lovely.

    first of all to the 60 year old who blocked me in world (i dont need to quote the resonances you can read them there)  You obviously didnt read what i was saying.

    i am not talking about someone who is 9 months younger. i am speaking of older women who flat out refuse to even talk to a guy whos SEVERAL YEARS younger then them.

    If your going to get bent out of shape over something so much as to block someone in world that you and i most likely never would have crossed paths anyways.  You might do well to actually read what the person is saying first.

    secondly to the response of the person saying that submissives arnt doormats.

    that is again, NOT what i am saying.   Of course a submisive has the right to her own opinion i am NOT saying they dont.   What i am saying is i meet so many on second life who claim to be "submiisive" in which case i beleive a truley submisive woman and not just one who "roleplays" should have a submissive personality. they are polite, respectful , they can have opinons and thoughts but not try to say it in a way to force it upon someone.  thats what i mean.  The types who after only knowing you for 5 minutes will blurt out "your not a dom" thats what i mean.    No you dont have to bow down to someone the second you meet them nor accept their collar BUT it would be NICE if you could show a LITTLE respect and politeness.
     

    MOST of my pet peeves are about commen sense about being a human being. about showing other people you give two cents about more then just yourself...about proper COMMUNICATION which should be a cornerstone of every connection.....friends or mor

    but i oh so thank you for your lovely responces.  and i think for the future ill keep my opinions free from these forums lest a group of you make a notecard of every thing i say you dont agree with and pass it around to all your friends (been there too).

    I add every single comment to my list of my pet peeves that was made to me.....to my list of pet peeves. because ironically your responses just proves my point.  Not one of you. not a single one responded positively to my list and said "omg i know exactly what you mean." and that my friends is the problem.

    and yes maybe some of my actions have caused issues. i am not a saint by any means. but you know bottom line i TRY to give the person i want to connect with the same level of consideration i hope they give me. and time and time again quite honestly you people on sl are just down right RUDE!

    but thats ok... ill remember the responces and remember what they say about karma people ;-).

     

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    Male mesh body advice

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    Ok......i finally did a demo test by getting both bodies demo the same skin demo and the same shape for both and the same demo boxers.

    and i find that gianni seems to be a bit more detailed and.......on jake the autoalpha doesnt fully work..the butt has parts that peak through.....

    on gianni the boxers fit perfectly without any alpha adjusting.

    🙂

     

    What are some of your pet peeves?

    in General Discussion Forum

    Posted · Edited by EveniosReturns38

    biggest issue i have often is with people.after being on sl for a good while overall.

    - hate it when.............

    • people you add who are never on
    • people you add who are always busy or always afk.
    • people you add who end up just removing you as soon as you log or the next day without telling you.
    • people who always hide their online status in your freinds list so you never know when the f-ck they are on.
    • when you tp someone to visit you and they immidently go afk for a very long time.
    • when you are in a conversation with someone that keeps going back and forth between afk and chatting
    • people who take FOR-EV-VER to respond to every single conversation.
    • people who mute you over ONE misunderstanding and/or LOG OFF so you cant try to work it out.
    • overly opinionated people (often "submissives") who stick their unwanted opinions in every chance they chance to try to undermind you.
    • people who say "we are better off friends" when you JUST met them and havent even had a real chance to get to know each other.
    • people who say one thing is fine (often sexually) and give into that thing and then the next day act like they shoudnt and want to run (even though you never forced them to)
    • newbies who apparently are able to download second life, create an account, login even sometimes create a basic look for themselves but cannot understand the simplest tasks even when you try to walk it through step by step.
    • older women who run the second a guy says hes a bit younger without even giving him a CHANCE just because of his age.
    • older women who are in their 40s 50s and older who type and act like they are 20
    • that ONE (or two) furry that always hangs out in a place filled by humans.
    • women at franks place who are always afk.
    • people who tell you "read my profile first" when you try to get to know them only to find out there is NOTHING in their profile that actually really tells you about who they are and its often filled with TONS OF quotes by other people and when you point that out they get super mad at you.
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    Male mesh body advice

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    "slowly getting to understanding........."

    ok.......so Jake HAS been updated to fix the mesh head issues (finally)

    BUT is still some issues with starfish hands without certain bento aos?

    good to know? lol

    Male mesh body advice

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    "Neither are quite as well-supported as {Signature Gianni} when it comes to apparel,"

    ok not sure where that came from but this is the false conclusion that the Signature body is the "best" body for male meshes. and thats not true.  I was visiting the store and saw how the body alone costs 3,500L (which is 500L MORE then the average mesh body in sl and 500L more then Jake) and i saw a very good looking male avatar there hanging out and he told me that Jake is far better by a long shot... I saw this thread trying to figure out what mesh body to get for my male upgrade and it looks like Jake is the best bet to go to.  it cost less and with the right skins it can look amazing.   Id pass on signature for now and i think that quote above is also a bit incorrect.

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