I was on another account trying to find my place in sl a few yrs back and it just didn’t seem to really click in most places. I tried BL for a couple of years and none of them really felt like family(except one n im kicking myself for never finding it again.) When i was active most were like oh wait who are you again? Or Id say something i didnt know was stupid, then got auto blocked. Then I tried bdsm n that was the loneliest road to nowhere ive ever had in a game in my life. I honestly think you, “gotta know someone,” or its not going to go well. The only one place I loved is gone now(so i feel a little helpless..) I did like exploring sims, but after a while you miss conversations..well.. i did at least. I have read some sad folks messages in this form n i gotta say it is hard to approach someone, but it maybe the only direct way to gain friends..doesn’t really help im shy. I would like to join a family in the future..just hard to do it emotionally. Rejection isn’t really easy. My partner outside of SL has asked me why do you continue to go on there? I told them because of one word hope, hope that i will fit in somewhere n that maybe even if one person to want to spend time with me and be happy to see me again if I ever took a few days off, would be worth everything. I would like to maybe get into photography if I knew howxD I wish I could find my second life..whatever it maybe.