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    A Banana (Reward up to $2000 L

    in Wanted

    Posted

    36 minutes ago, Resi Pfeffer said:

    You pay 4-8 US dollars for the creation of a new mesh banana and some animations, just made for you?
    You are just impudent, or completely clueless. :)

    Better buy this and be happy:
    https://marketplace.secondlife.com/p/BWish-Dildo-Banana-Mesh-Full-Permissions/5688080
    https://marketplace.secondlife.com/p/Animare-Plus-Pose-Animation-System-Boxed/15439427
    https://marketplace.secondlife.com/p/Bento-Oral-Sex-Expression-Female/13410237

    You are welcome.

    How very productive you are with the only two conclusions you came to about me being insults... but yes, I confess I am totally clueless. I thought it was a small task.  

    That link though - is awesome, even with the condescending and combative tone I find your reply very useful. 

    Thank you. 

    A Banana (Reward up to $2000 L

    in Wanted

    Posted

    Yes just a banana. 

    A plain, actually ready to eat (in the game) banana. 

    SOMEONE has to know how to create one.  500L to the first person to make me a banana that I can hold and take a bite of , on game.  I would pay 1-2 thousand lindens for a banana with some cute (naughty) animations (while eating it).

    Let’s see. 

     

    Banaana anannannannan 

    What are some of the causes of the behavioral differences between genders in humans?

    in General Discussion Forum

    Posted

    15 hours ago, Amina Sopwith said:

    True story from yesterday. Niece and nephew, both seven, were sharing a sticker book together. Lots of information about history, weaponry, armour, castles, exotic animals, natural rocks and space. After they were finished stickering and reading, nephew closed the book (it was his) and niece saw that it was called the Big Sticker Book for Boys.

    Niece: "Your book says it's for boys."

    Nephew: "Yeah, so what?"
     

    I come from a German / Irish background so in my family we are pale. I was in the Department of Motor Vehicles with my mother once, and  I was playing with a Little African American boy in the line. I was 3 or 4. Years old. The moms in line were watching us and listening to our chatter.  He asked me if I wanted to run to the end of the building  and back.  I told him he should ask his mama first. Then I turned to the moms, a line of about 10 people where only one woman was African American woman. 

    I closely inspected them all and finally looked back at him and said 

    “Which one is your mama?” 

    🦋🦋😻😻🦋🦋

    Gotta love the innocence of a truly color blind child . I saw no difference.  The moms all giggled.  I didn’t know why. 

     

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    Perhaps it is paranoia. Perhaps it is narcissism. Or ...

    in General Discussion Forum

    Posted

    33 minutes ago, RaeLeeH said:

    No.

    No.

    No. No. Probably.

    "suspiciously intuitive" - Probably sex related.

    No one's probably going to admit to it. Common enough. And quite likely.

    Needs to hang out in the places you hang out, clearly. Connections happen on an intellectual/emotional level because that's all that is real in a virtual playground. That, and money.

    Probably. But no crazier than me for multi-quoting you so many times 😆

     

    But to answer your question seriously (which is going to be difficult, I clearly woke up in a mood today); Is it possible to spark connections with people in SL? Absolutely. Is it common? I wouldn't really expect so. But it has been known to happen. I just wouldn't lay odds on it if I were a betting woman.

    In saying that, I've been lucky to meet people here over the years that I now call genuine friends. We regularly call or text or email outside of SL. We share in real life events, I talk to their kids, we vent about RL problems, we send each other things for Christmas, and I've even been invited to attend a wedding. We've created real friendships both inside and outside of SL. But that happened after years of talking and hanging out and joking around in SL. It didn't just miraculously happen, no.

    Personally, I would be inherently suspicious of anyone that suddenly "clicks" with you straight away, especially and because of the fact you admitted to hanging in places where adult activity is generally the norm. To be blunt, you're likely being groomed for the inevitable jump to pose-balls, if not Skype, to share a moment of intense passion (if you're lucky, or unlucky as the case may be). And once the deed has been done, or the passion wanes, watch that intense connection suddenly sputter and fade away. Until the next incredibly intuitive person comes along.

    You want my advice? Be careful. Trust your gut. You hit the proverbial nail on the head yourself by using the word "suspicious". Undoubtedly there are genuine people out there that would want nothing more than to take things to the next level and become a RL version of Syd and Nancy, or even your best buddy pal for everz! But be wary of those looking to rush headlong into anything real deep or real too fast, too. Take SL as you would your average night out at the bar; Mr Confident may be saying all the right things to get you to go home with him, but Mr Wallflower who doesn't click with you straight away or doesn't say all the right things might end up being a great long term friend (or a stalker, which is just as likely). The point is, enjoy yourself as much as you want, but just don't get too caught up in the fantasy. 

    And don't expect too many deep and meaningful connections if, no offense intended, you meet all these paramours dressed as a seductive French Maid or similar. Want genuine connections? Wear non-revealing outfits, don't return sexual innuendos, and share a hobby that doesn't involve getting naked or intimate. And appreciate the fact that not everyone in SL is looking to sleep with you, or hurt you, or even befriend you. There are nice people out there. And cruel ones. It's no different to the real world. We're all just prettier (or uglier) pixelated representations of ourselves in some way, after all. 😉

    Good point about attracting them based on the sexy maid thing.  Maybe that’s the thing.  Hmm.

    If I gave the impression that I don’t WANT the interactions - that was purely by accident. I am learning the boundaries as I go - and it turns out to be a bad idea to go blindly into any adult situation because if the boundaries have not yet been discovered, there’s a highly likely chance that it will end up with something more sinister than expected.

    One thing I noticed about your reply is how you see it from multiple views. That’s impressive. I almost can see your camera angle as it swivels round.  Hilarious and sensible advice.  Thanks. ❤️ 

    What are some of the causes of the behavioral differences between genders in humans?

    in General Discussion Forum

    Posted · Edited by CandyLipsKiss
    To babble more

    The difference in actions and behaviors when looking at men and women used to be very obvious. It used to be a deeply rooted instinctual game of cat-n-mouse.  Or man-n-woman.  

    As someone pointed out the instinctual grit is not as strong as 150 years ago when the most common reasons for having a sexual routine were connected to making babies. Technology and more time added to our estimated shelf lives makes a pretty strange combination and sends our species a genetic-mixed-message that says something (in the advanced language of our code)  that essentially says something sexy and awkward - In the same breath.  Like this:  “***** me! No wait! Ok, go ahead and ***** me. Wait! wait. I am not ready.  Ok ok ok go.” 🤭😂

    And mankind still continues reproducing-  only ... now it’s not as certain- and we have a lot of these mixed messages in our new generations .  

    ❤️Our bodies like the pleasure.

    🤖Our minds don’t connect sex as much to reproduction as we used and this is making a shift happen.  For sure. 

     

    Beep bop bleep bloop 

     

    edited to express my shame for not knowing the naughty word rules .  My bad. . 🙀

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    Perhaps it is paranoia. Perhaps it is narcissism. Or ...

    in General Discussion Forum

    Posted

    Do you ever get the odd sensation that the crazy and impressive new person you come across knows you?  

    Do you ever think 😍🤩”wow that special human (or furry thing or whatever) just waltzed into my playground and somehow says all the right things that speak directly to my heart.” 

    Does it ever feel as if the mega-impressive character standing before you is familiar? So close to you that you even love them a little? Impossible right?  A brand new person in your day usually takes several visits- sometimes for months or YEARS before they know you so well they can finish your sentences and read your mind based on the way you are dressed for the day. 

    So why is it... that I have repeatedly  encountered a suspiciously intuitive man who seems to know what I am about to do and say... in such a bullseye way that at one point I thought there might be a direct access feed into my private thoughts. 

    Or I have one extremely talented stalker.  The crazy thing is... oh never mind.  I think I am the crazy thing.  

    👥👤🗣👨🏻‍💻

    How often do people mess around with there flirts and fantasies from alt accounts?  Is this common?  Alts would explain the oddly amazing string of gentlemen I have run into lately. 

    If they are all the same dude that would be just comical.

    You guys can’t ALL be  awesome... can you?  Why do RL things feel so shallow and in SL ... human beings seem to connect on the levels they would otherwise keep locked and unexplored for all their years. 

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~

     

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    All of this has come to mind after a startling helicopter trip that landed me in the second life sea, alone in the dark... after being set on fire and being asked to relinquish my will to think on my own... and I was truly stunned by the behavior I normally would find atrocious that it somehow was charming. I was totally shocked into a state of trance I further fell. It was not scary like it sounds. It was liberating. It was sad too... 

    This type of absurd nonsense happened for the 3rd time this month. 

     

    Ok- so I have probably created a few of the monsters I keep meeting, simply because I have placed myself amongst the sinful and seductive frameworks in the community. 

     

    I don’t know what my question is to the people who might read this... just tell me something . Make it normal.  Make it crazy. I could use a little feedback about personal experiences. 

    *Awaiting replies that inevitably will range from brutal and scathing, to considerate and helpful.*

    Tell me. Am I the crazy one? Or is this community overflowing with beautiful people who are qualifiable Angels... amongst terrible, cruel wolves of the same blood. 

     

    ✨ 🦋✨🦋✨🦋✨

     

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