Hey vawandchill. Check out the San Sal Resort at http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Whispers/96/187/28
A very friendly hangout that has Tuscan style winery resort, great beach, performance theater for music, dance and games, and even a space station. There are clubs there but there is plenty to enjoy just as a hangout outside of those. If you're looking for a great chill spot, I highly recommend the beach.
Hope this helps!