Note: I won't be revealing his SL name, same goes for his *****. Lately my bf (I mean EX) didn't have much time for me and was always "busy" He rarely calls me, and when I call him he'd be like "Not now, I have a deadline to finish." So me being an understanding gf let it pass. He doesn't know that I've started playing SL just a few weeks ago, and what are the odds. I saw a guy that has a SL name somehow similar to my bf's name (what an idiot for incorporating his RL name) So my curiosity got the best of me and boy was I thankful. I approached the guy and he was talking with a very *****ty girl (mind you, they were having a very steamy conversation) I said "hey~" And the guy responds with a "Hi ;)" Immediately the girl with him IM me to back off. At this point my guts is telling me that it's him so I asked my RL bff to check on him in RL. My bff went to his house and was greeted by my ex bf's mother. His mom said that he was upstairs working on something in his computer (pffft) With that said, I called him in RL. 1st ring no answer, 2nd ring no answer, 3rd ring no answer, 4th ring still no answer. I somehow started laughing at myself and thought that I was just over reacting. On the 5th ring he finally answered, his voice was pissed. So I told him to chill and asked where he was.
Him: Babe, I told you I have a deadline and it's nearing.
Me: Oh sorry to disturb, I just really miss you. Lately you've been MIA.
Him: I know and I'm sorry, I'm at my colleague's house, needed some help with my project.
Me: Colleague's house? Ahhh, it's ok. Good luck on your project.
(note: while I was talking with him on the phone. The guy I assumed was him in SL had an "away" status.)
(note: His "away" status finally disappeared and resumed his steamy conversation with his *****. He also asked me if I wanted to join.)
Him: You have nice t*ts (referring to his *****)
*****: Want to come over? I'll let you rub them
Him: Sounds good, wanna join us Sapphire?
*****: Find another d*ck, he's mine.
Me: Hahahaha, working on a project. Was the project about having sex inside a game? With a *****?
Him: I don't know what you're talking about, if you didn't want to join you could've said so, crazy.
*****: Haha, must be a virgin in RL. Let's go baby
Me: It's me (RL name) You lying bastard. Have a nice time with your *****.
By this point I was really furious so I blocked him and the girl then I logged out, a few seconds later he called me.
Him: (RL name)? I can explain. Just don't hang up.
Me: Sure, you owe me an explanation. (My voice was dangerously calm)
Him: You were always busy and it gets lonely, plus when I asked you that night you forcefully said no.
Me: BUSY? ME? (I finally let the anger come out) WHAT ABOUT YOU? AND JUST BECAUSE I DIDN'T HAVE SEX WITH YOU?
Hahahaha yeaaaah sure, you know what? You're a big waste of my time, don't ever call or show your face to me again.
I ended the call and turned my cp off.
To this day, he's still asking for a second chance. We've been together for 3 years.. I miss him but at the same time I'm angry at him. Should I give him a second chance?