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    What are some of your pet peeves?

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    This is more of an updated list for RP

    • People ( it's usually doms/ men) who think that just because they collar you in an RP that they own you. Most may be okay with this but when it comes to me in particular. If we have not OOC ( Out of Character) talked about you collaring me and I have not verbally agreed to it, then you do not own any part of me. The collar comes off as soon as the RP ends and goes back on when it starts again
    • People who you have spent the majority of your RP time with, but still get whiney and entitled at the couple times you tell them you simply aren't in the mood for it/ need a break. It won't make me go " Oh I'm sorry, you are right let me drop what I was planning to do tonight to come play with you" No, you coming at me like I owe you something simply because I have been playing with you, ironically enough makes me never want to play with you again. I get on SL primarily to relax, de-stress have fun, if you go off on me the few times I have told you I ain't feeling up for it, then odds are we aren't gonna play again
    • People who ignore limits simply because they think having limits in SL are stupid. it doesn't matter what you think of the matter, you respect the limits people have listed and don't try to RP them, its simple as that
    • People who complain in your IM's when someone beats them to you. This happens a lot, the person will talk to me in my IM's for a good 20 minutes, often times teasing me about what they are gonna do to me, but then get annoyed when they see someone has beaten them to me. I am very much a first come first serve person. If someone gets to me before you, then better luck next time. You asking me to end it with them when you were too busy sweet talking me in IM's?.....no...be quicker next time
    • When you clearly state that IM's= OOC and Local = IC yet they will STILL try to initiate RP in IM's, despite them being right next to you inworld. More times then not this very thing is against the rules of the RP sim I am at and its HIGHLY annoying
    • At the risk of sounding vain and full of myself, it REALLY bugs me when my RP partners tell me that they only want to RP with me, that noone is as good as me...then they'll TP in someone to join the RP without so it leave me thinking "Uh huh.....way to just tell me what you think I wanna hear, darlin" Or "If I'm that good, then why did you TP in someone?" Again, I know this one sounds bad and like I'm full of myself, but its still highly frustrating when it happens because of the contradictions 
    • and Lastly, when RP sim Admins allow people to disrespect you because of the sims theme. for the sake of discretion I won't say the name of the sim, but because its a D/S, Misogyny themed sim, they allow the men to disrespect the women OOC and if you report them, then odds are the responses will be something along the lines of  "Well they are the superiors here, you should have listened to them" or " Why are you arguing with the men and complaining to me?" 
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    What are some of your pet peeves?

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    Posted · Edited by IvyLarae

    8 hours ago, EveniosReturns38 said:

    overly opinionated people (often "submissives") who stick their unwanted opinions in every chance they chance to try to undermind you.

    This may come as a shock to you, but most submissives arent brain dead bimbo's, we actually do have a mind of our own and if you say or do something we don't like, despite what you may think, we are going to state ours on the matter. Don't like it? maybe buy one of those sex statues that are popular on the MP

    8 hours ago, EveniosReturns38 said:

    people who say one thing is fine (often sexually) and give into that thing and then the next day act like they shoudnt and want to run (even though you never forced them to)

    Again, people are allowed to change their minds, AT ANY GIVEN TIME. There are limits for a reason, and maybe the thing you done sound like something they haven't tried and thought they would be okay with it, but once it was done they weren't

    8 hours ago, EveniosReturns38 said:
    • people you add who are never on
    • people you add who are always busy or always afk.
    • people you add who end up just removing you as soon as you log or the next day without telling you.
    • people who always hide their online status in your freinds list so you never know when the f-ck they are on.
    • when you tp someone to visit you and they immidently go afk for a very long time.
    • when you are in a conversation with someone that keeps going back and forth between afk and chatting
    • people who take FOR-EV-VER to respond to every single conversation.
    • people who mute you over ONE misunderstanding and/or LOG OFF so you cant try to work it out.

    I mean, this actually tells me more about YOU then it does the people who have muted/ deleted/ hid/ AFK'ed on you. I am not saying this to be rude but maybe its time to step back and evaluate how you interact with people, if SO MANY of them are doing this to you and stop acting like its their fault because its clearly not

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    The Help Thread

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    3 hours ago, MrsSeren said:

    Truth has changed how gifts done recently so that information is inaccurate, can't remember how but maybe fellow member can remember and share that info.

    I can assure you, I have heard Amber say the same a dozen times, The VIP styles are going to be sent in notices, where they will be for 14 days, after they fall off notices Truth will then put them in the store for a full price

    What are some of your pet peeves?

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    heres one, Rude Club owners who think their big stuff in SL now because of them owning a club

    Yesterday I was exploring on an alt and I seen an escort club pop up again on Virtual Secrets this week, so I thought " Eh, why not, I'll check it out" So I go there, was looking around, there was literally noone there save for a couple scripted bots and a staff member. Signs weren't rezzing for me and I had apparently walked into a staff only room that said if I didn't leave in 20 seconds I would be booted, so naturally I leave the room. I get sent home anyway, so I IMed the staff member who had been there, she had been kind to me and I asked why I had been ejected. 

    Maybe about 20 minutes later I pop back in on this account ( No other reason truthfully, I was just on that account but I wanted ro continue looking at the place, because for an escort place it was really well put together. I start to notice that the amount of bots had increased, and it was obvious they were bots because they all had the same rez day, had names like "Unleashed demon, Unleashed Pet" etc etc, so naturally i assume they were traffic bots. Now I will admit I coulda worded my  question about them differently because I phrased it something like " So......I notice 6 of the people here have the same rez day....their traffic bots arent they?" Again I worded that badly, I came off as rude, I fully admit and take responsibility for that. With that being said, one of the 2 owners that was there literally walks right up to my avatar, I'm talking pretty much bumps into it and starts being VERY rude to me, saying if I wasn't so stupid I would know they were something scripted  (They explained they hadn't been traffic bots but something else, it was a lot of scripting talk that I honestly couldn't understand so it was lost on me lol)

    The second Owner, and the 1st owners wife said something along the lines of "Keep talking as much as your weird long asds  torso'ed avatar wants" ( In their attempt at being rude to me they typoed the word ass, I literally sat there for a bit wondering what asds meant before I realized xD)

    Now to to me this came out of no where because aside from the poor way I worded my question, I hadn't disrespected them, called them names or anything. now keep in mind I had only been at this club twice. The second Owner popped off and said "Why are you so obsessed? We arent going to hire you". I found this hilarious because although I had looked at the application, I hadn't filled it out or submitted it, nor was I going to, plus they said it like it woulda been some privilege dven though the 2 times i had popped in there it had been empty.

    I had finally had enough and them accusing me of being obsessive twice, being rude and then telling me they weren't going to hire me, I popped off and said

    " Oh thats good, I didn't fill out an app anyways ;)" and they kicked me

     

     

    I am sorry, but your just one of MANY escort club owners in SL, That doesn't instantly earn you some elated status or make you royalty, So don't come off as an ass towards me

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    The Help Thread

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    With SL becoming increasingly popular and with Mesh kind of becoming necessary, I thought I would put together a list of stores that give out gifts, whether you are just meshed out and looking for items to help get you started or just looking for Beauty and Fashion on a budget, Down below is a list of Clothing, Shoes, Hair, skin and eyes Stores that I found that can really help you out

    In my search, however, I could not find makeup stores that gave out gifts so please, if you know of any feel free to list the store name, the group joining fee and the SLurl in the comments of this Thread

     

    CLOTHES:
    -Safira: Joining fee L$50
    This store has a huge wall full of gifts on the second floor of their floor on the right, for various mesh body types Like Maiterya, Belleza and Slink Hourglass
    SLurl: http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Safira Mainstore/182/125/22

    -Scandalize: Joining Fee L$100
    Scandalize Has a room full of gifts and Lucky boards to hit up. They are, when you first enter the store, go completely to the right, the room is marked by a sign on the floor. They give out gifts pretty often and create for the Mesh bodies Belleza Freya and Isis, Maitreya and Slink Hourglass
    SLurl: http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Safira Mainstore/182/125/22

    HAIR:
    -Fabia: Joining Fee L$200
    Fabia has quite a few free hairs on a wall when you first walk in, varying from single color packs to Fatpacks

    -TRUTH: Joining Fee: L$350
    TRUTH sends out 12 gifts a year, all fatpacks. They have a wall on the right when you walk past the archway, all past VIP hairs are L$500 each. Each gift that is sent out are in notice for 14 days before they are put up in the store for full price
    SLurl: http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Truth/158/27/34

    -Little Bones: Joining fee L$100
    Little Bones has quite a few gifts when you first walk into the store, Lucky Boards and a Midnight mania board that gifts out a Fatpack hair if the Board hits the target number
    SLurl: http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Penumbra Republic/133/132/501

    SHOES: 
    -Empire: Joining Fee L$500
    Empire has several pairs of shoes on the wall on the right and sends out gifts quite a bit
    SLurl: http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Crown/128/128/33

    -KC Couture: Joining fee L$50
    KC Couture has a few pairs of shoes when you first walk in, they are on a shelf on the right, and they also have 2 lucky letter boards
    SLurl: http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Ominious/33/154/23

    EYES:
    -Avi-Glam: Joining fee L$5
    Avi glam has 2 eyes gifts out in their store, they are on the left wall as you walk in
    SLurl: http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Hell Fire/183/190/23

    SKINS:
    -Lara Hurley: Joining Fee L$0
    Lara Hurley has several group gifts made for Mesh heads such as Catwa, Lelutka, LOGO as well as classic avatar skins:
    SLurl: http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Magic Valley/198/211/23

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    What are some of your earliest memories from Second Life?

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    A few days ago me and my SL mother and friend were talking about our early days on on the platform, and we both had some pretty insane stories that gave us a good laugh

     

    What are some of your all's earliest memories on SL?

     

    One of mine was, I used to hang out at this adult sim called Tropicana quite a bit back about 8 or so years ago, I used to pretty much stay there and just cause general chaos lol. I'll spare the details because this is a general rated forum, but one time I got a pop notifying me that my avatar had became pregnant. Keep in mind I had only been about a month or so into SL at the time and knew next to nothing in general lol. I literally thought at the time what I had in my inventory was all I was allowed to have. It goes without saying, I absolutely freaked out and lost my mind when I got that notification. I remember IMing a friend of mine at the time absolutely losing it like 'What am I gonna do?! I'm gonna have to create a new account! HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAALP!"

    .....It wasn't one of my finer moments.

    But what are some of y'alls???

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    What are some of your pet peeves?

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    2 hours ago, LittleMe Jewell said:

    Today's pet peeve / irritation (since it has now happened multiple times): Creators that send out notecards containing pictures & information about items at an event that ended days ago or an inworld sale that has already ended -- i.e. sending out the same notecard over and over w/out bothering to update it to remove stuff that is no longer valid.

    I now remember why I left this store group last year.

    Mind me asking which store this is? Lol

    Do IM conversation's die for you if you TP out?

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    This is something I have dealt with, pretty much since I signed up on my main alt and its only seem to have gotten worse as the years go on

    People who will IM you, not talk to you in local, but IM you to talk, then you TP out for whatever reason, whether it be go to shopping or something, then they act like they can't continue the conversation because they can't see you.... We're in an IM!? why does this happen so often, and it seems to be more of a growing problem than a shrinking one?! I understand sometimes you want them to be in the same room, but unless the place is packed, why not talk to me in local if your not gonna treat it any differently?!

    CAN SOMEONE PLEASE EXPLAIN THIS TO ME? Because this is an issue that is only grown in the entirety of my residency on this platform?

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    Lines that annoy you most

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    Since we're on the topic of Role-play and so forth, this isn't exactly a line, but an expectation so I feel it could still feel fall into this category

    Last night I got into a bit of an argument ( Thats putting it mildly) with a guy who in his profile stated that he wouldn't even play with someone if they didn't have RLV folders set up, didn't have MD cuffs. iControl, etc etc.

    the TL:DR version was I sent him a very politely worked statement on it and asked why he required it, and how i felt about RLV in itself. He proceeded after about a minute into the conversation to belittle me, call me vulgar names, calling me rude and claiming he's gonna have me banned from ALL RP sims and groups because I simply didn't have the same beliefs he had ( I admit I started ripping into him too once i seen he wasn't gonna be respectful towards me, but where I think he was getting offended by it, I was amused and playing a long because it was one of the bizarrest and cringiest arguments I've ever had xD)

    The point of me saying all of this, is it annoys me when people who rely heavily on RLV and claim its the only role-play that is right when it isn't. I use Minimal RLV, I wear a collar that my SL wife has locked and blacklisted me on, and its on ask only mode, thats it. i personally find that people who rely heavily on it are just....* shudders*

    Lines that annoy you most

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    Posted · Edited by IvyLarae
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    28 minutes ago, Amina Sopwith said:

    When I was playing a lot in adult places, I had my limits clear in my profile. I had quite a lot - I was very very new to it and working to get over a very repressive RL background - but they were my limits, and anyone who didn't want to abide by them was welcome to ignore me and find another partner. 

    The number, sheer overwhelming number, of people whose very first interaction with me was nothing but an attempt to violate my limits, was staggering. I couldn't and still can't understand why they didn't just bypass me and go after any one of the jillion other people in the area if that was what they wanted. We had never played, never even spoken, and yet the very first thing they tried to do was manipulate or pressure me into things I had set as hard limits. 

    It was years ago and it still annoys me now. Definitely lines that I don't like.

     

    I've been through that before. About a month or so ago I had someone claimed that because of my limits, no one wanted to role-play with me, they were trying to get me banned from the Sim for it. They even claim they had people talk to them about me about it, it was ridiculous and funny because I've had the same limits for years and no one has voiced any problems with them until then, I've even gotten rid of some of them over the years, so it baffled me the level of the guy was going to to try to get rid of me because of the four hard limits I had

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    What are some of your pet peeves?

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    I think I've said one of the two I'm about to post already but ah well, not about to sift through 22 pages worth of posts to see lol

     

    1. When guys get in my IM's and tells me  " Wow you'd look better if you weren't covered in tats/ had less piercings/ wore longer or more feminine styles" Well firstly my avatar's arent customized to please your eyes, their customized to please mine and mine only. Secondly unless I ask for it, I don't want your unwarranted opinions, I don't Randomly IM guys saying "Man I wish you looked more like a biker dude" I ask you to show me the same courtesy.

     

    2. When stores only give out gifts that are half the quality that their paid for products are. It annoys me because it speaks legions about the store creator. If I see a store's gifts are poor quality while the other things you pay for are gorgeous, then odds are you won't see me shopping there. Just because you won't be making money off the gifts doesn't mean that you shouldn't put your all into it

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    What are some of your pet peeves?

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    1 hour ago, Scylla Rhiadra said:

    Too fast and not nearly painful enough.

    I want whoever invented the autohide script to reside for all eternity in a very special place in HELL, where their body parts keep blinking in and out of existence at inopportune moments. When they reach for food, i want their arms to suddenly disappear. When they try to stand up, I want their legs to fade into nothingness.

    I want them to SUFFER.

    .....So I take it your not a fan of clothes autohiding your body

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    What are some of your pet peeves?

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    Posted · Edited by IvyLarae

    Heres one that I am always reminded of when I store hop

    Groups with joining fee's....

    Yeah yeah, I know why groups have them, its to keep scammers away, and they might actually do a lot for the members/ VIP's

    With that being said, theirs few things that are as annoying as when your freebie shopping, you see a wall of group gifts, go to excitedly join the group so you can be like a child opening the gifts Santa left you on christmas morning....

    Only to see the fee is like L$100, L$250, etc etc

    Like c'mon! My broke *bleep* was freebie hunting for a reason!? 

    xD xDxD 

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    What are some of your pet peeves?

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    Posted · Edited by IvyLarae

    This isn't exactly a peeve but to me its definitely cringe worthy.

    When you open up a profile, and someone has a hyperlink to a sentence like " want my attention? Click here!" And you click it and it just brings up the Pay box....when the Pay button is AT THE BOTTOM OF YOUR INWORLD PROFILE!?

    I'm sorry but is escorting failing so bad you need a second pay option!?!? ( I said escorts but you rarely ever see anyone else but escorts do this)

    Like having that in your profile is just as cringe worthy as putting the link that if people click it, it changes their avatars to something silly like a monkey or chicken just.....WHY!?

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    What do you all get on SL for?

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    Posted · Edited by IvyLarae

    With the sky being the limit on this platform, its got me wondering what you all use it for??? Do you use it just hang out with friends? To create? Is it your RL job?

     

    For me its a way to express myself and explore things that I simply can't/ am uncomfortable exploring in RL

    • I use it to role-play
    • Hang out with friends
    • Take pictures
    • Shop

     

    What about you?

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