For a better understanding of how the magic of "conception" in SL works, a good place to start would be to understand that above all else, the woman makes the total choice if she wants to indulge in the roleplay or not.:heart:
With that being said, the women that choose to roleplay being pregnant, might make use of a fertility HUD so they can add to the realism of their experience. Even if a woman is pregnant and decides to opt out of this, there is no real need for an "abortion" or something drastic like this because the woman can simply cease to roleplay any further.
Understand, there is never at any point an actual baby that begins to grow inside the avatar's tummy, either. The only way this is ever the case, is if again, a woman chooses to go out ahd purchase additional add ons that offer a growing fetus that she can attach and wear inside of her avatar's tummy. For those looking for that kind of RP, there are loads of creative options to really make the whole experience more realistic. For those of you who are not wanting to be pregnant - if ever you receive the pop up message that exclaims you are pregnant - do not panic, simply close the message and no harm is done.
For an in-depth guide on the whole magic of SL Baby Making and how it progresses, I recommend you read through
The SL Pregnancy Handbook: Having your Baby
You can grab a FREE copy here . . .