TReardon

Yes reclogging does fix it. I was also partially able to fix it by using undeform avatar and force appearance update under avatar health without reclogging. But the eyes were still popped out of the head so I had to relog anyway. Probably right that it has something to do with physics layers. I'll try puttering in that direction and see if I can figure anything out. Thanks! :-)

I've noticed this before when changing the actual body not just the skin. Seems that the bodies are not simply interchangable but seem to bleed over one to another? Is there a way to fix this?

Excellent post and hits the nail directly on the head!

This is a heart rending story - it is too bad that the small minds are able to drive out a warm caring person like that. I also am a male with a female avi. I have always played females in ANY game where that is an option. It has nothing whatsoever to do with getting into someone's drawers - it has to do with wanting to be comfortable with who I am inside. I have a male avi - he is not me and I am not comfortable playing him. Frankly, I have had only two people that I've been really close to and before it went too far I told them. One is now a FB friend as well. There are so many crass, self righteous bigots in SL it is sickening. But since I choose my friends based not on their age, race, nationality, sex, sexual preference, or any other meaningless category that people wish to use to justify their narrow minds, I have quite a few good friends and two that are totally special.

There are a LOT of bigoted women on SL aren't there. How about this - have a conversation with a human person regardless of male or female and make your friends or relationships accordingly. You know that drop dead gorgeous guy - he probably doesn't look like that in RL. What a bunch of hypocritical bigots! Ugh!

Can't log-in either. Same message. Does anyone read these blogs who has an answer?