I have been in Second Life for 6 years today and I do consider it a game. The only other discription I have heard is "a pretty chat room" and I don't like that one. You can't fly in Real LIfe, or Teleport wherever you want to go. You can't tap a magic wand on the ground and make a house, a car, a space ship ( no, I never actually made a car, I have one in RL). This world and everything in it is made by the people who come here, call them residents or gamers it is all the same to me. I don't get upset about the words you use, it is about comunnicating ideas.
I brought a friend here from Entropia Universe, a REAL game, with MOBS that attack you,etc. and after abouit half an hour he said, "This is just a pretty chat room." So I tapped a magic wand on the floor of my house and made a table out of thin air in about two minutes. Suddenly he was much more interested and wanted to learn how to do this amazing feat. I sent him to NCI (New Citizens Inc) and the Ivory Tower of Prims (there are many more good places to learn, these are just the ones I first found out about). He spent weeks playing at building all sorts of things. You can't do that in RL.
He also made many friends from all over the world, something that is hard to do in RL. Regularly talking to people from Japan, China, France, England, Wales, Canada, Mexico, Argentina, etc is hard to do any other way. I love seeing what others have made and talking to them about their ideas. And sometimes I just go to a club and listen to the music and dance the night away.
I really don't know why so many are upset by calling it a game. It is the most fun I have ever had and I love being a player.
Diane Holden