I've given a lot of thought to all of this and frankly my first instinct in this case is to tell everyone to go ***** themselves. However, that would not really get my point across to anyone and only serve to fuel the temper that i work really hard to control. I am better than that. So instead I will say that I feel sad for the people who took so much time to focus on something negative when what I was hoping to accomplish was something positive. One of my biggest goals the last few years is to focus on positive things in my life because living life only focusing on the negative or what you do not have is miserable. I've seen it in myself and I've seen it in others.
I love my life. I have struggled in life, it has not always been easy. I am far from perfect and have never had anything simply handed to me; I work really hard and so does my family. I share this because I encourage all of you to examine yourselves and your lives and try and find the positive. It's important and not because I'm telling you to or because I've done it. I'm saying it because I promise you will be happier and you will not have time for trying to drag others down on the internet. And just so we're clear, you can't drag me down. You can't make me feel bad or guilty or shamed. So that being said.... If you read this thread and didn't immediately think that your services were needed to dispense speedy social justice or that your elevated morals required you to judge the "terrible" people you don't even know, please feel free to IM me so we can be friends.