[Login failed the last 4 days and i dont know why ?]

Pegasus,

Did your login die when viewer was 'updating friends list'?   If so, you are not alone.  I am suffering the same as well as an unknown number of accounts.  I have submitted two support tickets but as yet have not had a response.  If you research the issue and find offered solutions, those tried have been unsuccessful to this point.  Please submit a support ticket to SL.  I am an 'honored (yet basic) resident but don't how much weight that holds with Tech Support.  Good Luck

Information on submitting tickets can be found here: https://community.secondlife.com/t5/English-Knowledge-Base/How-to-contact-customer-support/ta-p/739385

Casey Grafta

[Friends list updating on log in?!?!]

I wish this was an answer but alas, no. I am having the same issue with the login stopping at 'updating friends list"  I am stuck and have submitted two support requests for solutions. Nothing suggested online has worked.