BellaSwanTwilight Fallen

At first my avatar was fine, before they did the server restarts, i think the restarts effected my Avatar after because my Avatar was fine before it, Now people was seeing me grey, a cloud and not rezzed fully, i did few things to fix it, clear cache, rebaked a few times, went into appearance, did debug settings, and also did many character tests. I see my avatar fine on my end of the screen but others see me not on the right skin, and my clothes aren't changed. I got the cloud and grey issue off, replaced new skins and shapes, tested everything possible, i bought new skins and shapes, nothing works to other to see but on my end it looks rezzed and fine. i see everything okay. I want to know what else i can do to change the skin and clothes for others to see its rezzed and not what it appears to them. I'm starting to give up and everything was fine until now. Is any advice or help anyone can suggest to me. Thanks