Thanks for the answers guys. But for those who say I was stupid or not paying attention or that i think it was a sinster plot, I was gone from sl for 6 MONTHS! I had no internet and no way to get to a computer and therefore no way to check on that so please do read a little more closely into questions! I was not being stupid or anything of the sort. I joined free groups and no groups I looked at had it to where you don't pay liablilites, so I just didn't join any groups to took lindons and was under the impression they would not start.
Again thanks for taking the time to anwser my problem wether helpful or not lol. And especially thank you to the people who were supportive and actually adressed my problem thinking that I do have a brain that works just fine.