Wow, embarrassing. Could be an asset server thing or even your own wifi being of low strength. Now, if you loose hair or something it is not so bad as you can reduce the draw distance to say 62 meters. - but what you are saying is that you look ok on the client side but the others see you that way. ( barring a joke played upon you ) I'd go to a really low lag place in game to change the outfit. Sometimes going into edit appearance will push information to the servers. There are at least 3 caches that might be cleared (1) Web (2) Network (3) Region Objects_adv menu. I find that using the computer system tools for cleaning up cached files from all users of the computer will occassionally help. -Also keep in mind that jpg textured clothing will need less load time as alpha areas would not need to load. Jpg files made for the internet are kept down to around 72 in resolution. Black is a color that has some advantages as it tends to load over say red. One other evil that you may be popped by is overscripting. Scripts use resorces. If you have huds and clothes on and such should happen to be over scripted, you could potentially have problems.