Double posting like a dork because I didn't see your last line, there! Definitely don't worry too much, you've already helped a lot! That said, here's some hopefully clear pictures of what I've got currently if you feel like taking a poke at it. The skin I'm currently using is Porcelain Sabine from Pink Fuel (which is also a little old), for reference, too.
First, with hair and accessories and all of that good stuff, in-case that helps at all!
Annnnd secondly with it taken down to the relative basics for visual clarity:
I'll definitely check out all of your recommendations, too! Thanks a bunch!