Actually I had some nice conversations in the beta grid. But most people are just AFK and working in blender next to it.
So I think the main grid would be better suited for a meetup. And yes, talking bull***** and discussing blender problems sounds awesome.
I'm following the BB group chat and while it is interesting what people are discussing from time to time it doesn't seem like the best place to socialise.
Thanks for all the answers so far. Some people already IMed me in world and it was really interesting to talk to them. So feel free to contact me if you feel the same way.
Maybe there's even enough demand to create a space where builders can just hang around and meet like minded people or plan projects. I would have thought that something like this already exists. I mean there's SIMs for basically every niche interest or kink 😅