Myrthe Mysterious

It is ok, I understand how my story looks like, so I cant blame if there are people out there who cant believe it. It is not something I would ever had believed if it did not happend to me. Well, I did looked if there where some groups for stalkers, but not found really one, and I was to shy or scared to even tell my story And I think you are right about taking an SL sabbatical, because it is not much fun now either. Thanx

Sorry to hear that you had to endure that. And that one person can destroy the joy for others. Glad to read that you are enjoying your SL again and I hope there is a time you can enjoy again like you did before. I know what you mean, I changed maybe 10 times with my account, but I was torn between keep changing and felt like a chicken for hiding away, or If I would confront everything and just keep my main. Then it feels like I see it coming, the thrill is for him to find me over and over. So with my main there is no thrill for him, if it makes sence That was really a dumb move I made, I really did trusted him. Now I don't even talk about my RL anymore, I learned my lesson the hard way. Thank you for your anwser

I dont know any of these 2 trackers, I once tried bloodlines, as cct combat, they dont use those I believe?

well thats not a bad idea to do. Now im stuck at my home and do not much anymore. So it doesn't matter how my avatar looks at this point, If I can go out and not only stay in one place. Atleast I would have some fun again, so I will give it a try for sure and we will see what happens. And for the boring part, he called me a boring person, I asked him if it makes him happy to get rejected so many times ( this is a while ago, I dont interact with him now) Im normally not easily intimidated or a scared person at all, if it is RL you can see and know who you are up against. For me it is the person behind a screen you dont really know, and you never really know whit which avatar he is coming this time.I cant fight against someone who knows more about the online possibillities then I do, who is trying to play mindgames and those have effect. Some time ago I really was messed up about this all, I thought I was going crazy. The things said with different accounts really made me act weird, and confused. Now Im getting at a point I dont really care anymore what others think or say. Also he showed me he is not the person I met at first, the person I really liked as a person, respected and cared for. He is a coward behind a screen, who is trying to make others feel just as miserable as he is.

Well I dont mind anymore if it is fair, like it is now it is also not even fun to be in SL either, so it is better to have all that put off. I jut like to explore and shop and do my own things. I did read a few stories from others who have experienced this, and even talked with a few about who sadly experienced this I understand it sounds weird and you cant believe it, and thats fine. I am just glad for you that you never have had this before, and you can enjoy your SL like you wish. Thank you for your anwser

Thank you for your anwser, I had a mac before and I use a windows laptop now. As fas as I know I did not copy anything from my mac to my new laptop. Only thing I can think of is my I cloud was the same. could that be it? And I will ask my neighbour if he will take a look at my laptop, he knows alot about those things you mentioned. We talked in RL and I know some about him, but he does not live near me. Glad he doesn't Oo well I did not knew I typed it all on one line, I will watch that if I write a long text again.

Ok, thank you I understand it. I will do that, and I will call today with my provider. I changed my passwords and mu main I don't use for recovery anymore

Thank you for this anwser, only can you explain to me what a lot device is (im not that technical ) I did not knew all this, and I will reset my router settings for sure, better safe then sorry I will call them monday to ask if it is safe. The media I have turned off I read about that on a site "how to avoid redzone" right after that I changed those settings. Thank you so much I am going to try these things for sure

I had a scripted object, I deleted it a few weeks ago. And I changed my settings, so RLV is off and also my media, sounds and voice is off, Is there another setting I should change?

He knows this avatar, and I dont know if he is reading here. I guess you are right and I should turn on only IM's from friends and groups, I will check if i can find it, thanx for the idea

No idea I did read about redzone, only that is illegal in SL now

Yeah I will put anti spyware on his pc for sure No my son is not doing this, he sits with me in my living and is on his pc so I can see what he is doing on it. But thank you

Ah I understans what you mean. And I do believe that maybe that is what gives it away, my broken english, I did try to change my typing, but thats hard to do. You are right and I am trying to not distrust everyone I meet

Thank you, and I was afraid this would happen, but I am very glad that some people do understand what It means when this happens to them. I really do not like to be in this situation, I wish I could just enjoy my SL in peace without always looking over my shoulder. Sadly not everyone understands this. But thank you for your kind words

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