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  1. 3 hours ago, Alwin Alcott said:

    your point?... without words we could try to guess...

    Ehm, somehow this endet Up in the wrong topic O.o It was for the "How does Your Avatar Look today" idk why it did that, sorry 🤔

     

    But, um dear Origammi

    What kind of skin are you using there? If you only have this one, and not the Linden Dollars for another, I would still recommend getting a demo from another developer to test whether the problem is with the skin or the head. I personally like to wear The Skinnery, Amara Beauty, Heaux, Deetalez, ... I've never had the problem with these, if it shows up there, then something is wrong with this head or settings and I would look for a support group for Catwa.

    Idk If EEP really fixes anything here, If it does its only on her end, everyone else still sees the Problem tho 🙈

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  2. On 9/4/2021 at 2:05 PM, katiapfurtscheller said:

    So, a bit of background on my situation. 

    In May 2020, I was forced to self-isolate and I ended up spending quite a bit of time exploring Second Life. I came across a sim called Edenvale and met some (what I thought) were really nice people. It was a vibrant sim. There was lots of role-play; people hung out and chatted; and I looked forward to logging in every evening. But at the end of May, somebody created drama and there was an exodus to another sim (called Lake County). Like everyone, I moved to Lake County, and while the first few weeks were good, the sim never really took off and it became boring. Anyway, that sim closed in September 2020, and a few months later I joined a sim called Carroway Heights with some of my friends from Edenvale. 

    By way of further detail, I had a disagreement with a friend of mine in January 2021. I felt she wasn't doing her fair share of the work in a hospital we worked at, and the owners were complaining to me. Three days later I find myself banned from that sim. However, I remained friends with the owner, and she had me unbanned a few months later. I was a very good contributor, and was promoted to estate manager a few weeks later. But the people who had be banned never gave me another chance - they tried to undermine me by creating drama and tried to frame me for a virtual secret. It was very hurtful to be treated this way.  

    Without going into any further details, Carroway Heights closed in July 2021, and I found myself abandoned. Everyone else went to another sim, which I am banned from (because I had a difference of opinion with the owners). I have had numerous fights with the owners and some of my former friends. I get the sense that some of them revel in the fact that I am alone.  I have been told that nobody likes me and to basically go away, which I am contemplating doing. 

    I do love Second Life, and I have some friends, but I am extremely lonely. I had my own land with a medical clinic, but I have decided to give that up as I am tired of logging in every night and being alone. I'm just at the point where I think I will quit. 

    I should say, I am not a perfect person. I can be temperamental, and I have struggled with my mental health in recent times. But I don't believe that I should be treated like a pariah. 

    Does anyone have any advice? 

    Jennifer (katiapfurtscheller)

    (Edenvale, May 2020; Lake County, May-September 2020; Carroway Heights, December 20-January 2021; April-July 2021). 

     

     

     

     

    I'm not here to rub salt into a wound, but in 12 years SL I never managed to get banned anywhere besides one single Sandbox (I was bored, OK? And the owner really overreacted xD) or to fight really badly that often. Perhaps you should reconsider your behavior in an argument so that several, individual people don't run away or consider a ban as the only way out of it.

    I can really only guess because I don't know you, but my experience with people who always complain about being alone in SL was mostly that they contribute a very big part to it. That doesn't mean that you are generally a bad person, maybe you argue too emotionally, maybe you are very sensitive or you tend to know everything better and annoy people with it. Maybe you are very negative.These are things that can be changed.

     

    So I don't really know how to help you besides this and I dont wanna bei an A...hole rn, but If I was you I would probably calm a bit more and go out to meet new people

  3. On 9/22/2021 at 11:30 PM, Iggy UwU said:

    after reading this thread, i find it interesting to see how people view profiles in SL. 

    i'm a huge profile stalker because it is an invitation to see how a certain person treats their SL experience.

    i've seen some really interesting profiles where they are super in-depth and very descriptive, then there are some that have nothing on them. there is no in-between it seems like. 

    with my profile in SL, i constantly edit my profile because i like to keep up-to-date on my information that i like posting and when my interests vary in SL at a certain time. also, i can never choose an aesthetic or theme for my profile since i am THAT person.
    i wonder if anyone does the same, honestly.

    Iam kinda "In between" it Seems. I have a bit of Stuff there to make it Seems full, because people react weird If you dont. Like "You are an alt/fake/creep for Sure, eat probably newborn Babies and have Something to hide!". But it is not really up to Date, I Touch it maybe once a year. Some People have tons of "wise words", Lot of RL information, all of their Friends, enemies, lovers, exlovers, working places, places they like, places they hate, and Profile/Partner/Name/.... changes every week. Maybe I am just lazy or take it less serious? Idk. 
     

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  4. 24 minutes ago, TDD123 said:

    @EmmaTyler1 : A sorbet ? Do you know how unhealthy they are ? Shouldn't you be wearing a veggieshake at the least ?

     

     

     

    ( I'm just kidding .. no offense. )

    What about alcoholism, diabetes and sex before marriage? I gonna burn in hell it seems

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