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    No point

    in Make Friends

    Posted

    17 hours ago, JennyGully said:

    Hi anyone know where all the gay clubs are? I need a gay friend I'm open to any sexual orientation. I mean I need friends period,  but I want to be the grace to someone's will. Find me a gay husband?

    I don't think Friend's are accessories I'm just incredibly blunt. If my tag was offensive to any one I apologize but I don't see anything wrong with the rest of my post if you read it with out a stick up your butt .

    No point

    in Make Friends

    Posted

    16 hours ago, Skell Dagger said:

    I sincerely hope you're trying to troll the forum in a humorous manner with this, but in case you're not...

    You specifically need a gay friend? Why? For his stereotypical sense of style? His mincing wit? His sassy cut-downs?

    Permit me to rephrase your post in an attempt to nudge you gently out of your current mindset and make you look at your request in a new light. Imagine a white person saying the following:

    "Hi anyone know where all the black clubs are? I need a black friend I'm open to any shade of black or brown. I mean I need friends period, but I want to be the white person to someone else's black person. Find me a black husband."

    Pretty offensive, isn't it?

    Friends are not accessories. You don't advertise for one of each colour/orientation/ religion, etc, so you can complete the friendship version of a charm bracelet. Friends come into your life and you love them for being friends, not for being gay or Jewish or black.

    You also say that you're open to any sexual orientation, but then you state you want a "gay husband". So [insert sexual orientation here] women, sorry, but it seems that you're not required for the collection. The jury is out on whether a transman would be acceptable, I guess. Maybe he'd be a separate charm altogether on the bracelet.

    Lastly, if you'd tagged this with something less offensive you might not have got at least this gay man quite as irritated by your post as he already is. Sure, some gay men don't mind the term, but many do. Just because that term is applied to women in general, that doesn't mean the root of it isn't offensive to many gay men. Just as you should leave it up to individual PoC to use and reclaim the n-word if they wish to, try leaving it up to individual members of the LGBT community to let you know if they mind you using that word.

    OK. You ll be fine

    My land lady is ok with perving?

    in General Discussion Forum

    Posted

    On 8/31/2017 at 1:59 PM, Rhonda Huntress said:

    All generalizations are false. 

    I do not appreciate your lies about my behavior.  If you have a problem with someone's posts, why not mention them directly?  I would also like to see what you think is an attempt to shame Jenny.  By the way, Jenny is also part of "everyone in these forums" that you accuse of shaming Jenny herself.

    To sum up the thread for those who are not following what's happening.

    Jenny: I can't eject pervs and my landlord doesn't care.  Is that weird? Is it OK that I left because of that?
    Lillith: The last time we talked you were looking at buying.  Looks like you settled on renting.  You only get the permissions the owner gives.  There is not any real privacy in SL but you can find places with more permissions for you.
    Jenny: Right.  I was renting and wondered if buying was a better optio for security.
    Alwin: Good job on getting out.
    Pam (to Lilith about the no privacy statement): SL is not set up to accommodate the very modest.
    Akasha: I need security options if I rent. (to Pam): If my modest ass is seen it should be my choice.
    Jenny: Exactly!
    Jenny: The landlord and I are still friends and they have no hard feelings.
    Jenny laughs at Pam's modesty comment.
    Alwin: If all is good.  Why bring it up?
    Jenny: Wanted to know if I was being rude.
    Cindy posts a meme about confusion.  (My take is, why would Jenny think it was rude to leave where she was not comfortable.)
    Jenny laughs: Just making sure.  It's 4:20 here ...
    Love makes sarcastic comment about landlady.
    Tari: Glad it worked out.
    Jenny: Is Love serious?
    Jenny, Lilith Qie and Chic talk about land ownership. Alwin makes a psudo-grumpy comment.
    Talli supports Jenny. Love the 2nd and Callum engage in off topic flirts with Talli.
    Lil teases Alwin about the not really grumpy comment.
    Chase asks about the guy in original post and sides with Jenny
    Jenny: He was just some dude.
    [more off topic banter]
    Ceka posts a rocking fantasy pic with dragons!
    Chase: If you want to rent, I can recommend a few places with what you are wanting.

    00TK: you are all a bunch of trolls.

    Lillith: ??

    It kind of winds out of control from there.   Accusations based on misinterpretations and people asking where the accusations are coming from leads us to here.

     

    This entire post was *****ing fantastic.

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    My land lady is ok with perving?

    in General Discussion Forum

    Posted

    2 hours ago, Chase01 said:

    Who is this " Swedish dude?" ... Is he another tenant on the sim, a friend of your landlord? I am really confused why there was no security on the property. Was it a shared space situation, or what Chic descri

     

     

     

    He was just visiting the island for a friend. No he was not a tenant. I was.nope no security in the entire Sim. I didn't necessarily want to ban him just wanted to eject. It was her Sim and I rented a beach hut in it.

    My land lady is ok with perving?

    in General Discussion Forum

    Posted

    2 hours ago, Lillith Hapmouche said:

    You recently had a "Should I buy land?" thread with very detailed answers and opinions as replies.

    And yet it seems that you have settled for some sort of "rental" that isn't even the common norm of land rental in SL. According to your report, you simply seem to pay for a "right to stay and look at the view", but you do not have any land rights like freezing, ejecting or banning. Can you at least rez your own objects? If you can, look for a decent security orb and set it up properly to guard your ground. Then, like you did, muting annoying unwanted folks plus derendering and blacklisting them, if your viewer offers such features.

    You hopefully are aware that a closed door means nothing in terms of privacy in SL. 

    Besides... I honestly cannot imagine that there'd be such a unique view and/or house which cannot be recreated anywhere else. But that's a different story.

    I already had a established little piece of land that I owned For 7 months but I really just wanted to try this beach hut as like a vacation place would you say  because it was cheap low lag and had a club nearby. I didn't realize there was no security and such which would make it my fault. The should I buy land thread was to know the difference what I have now and being a premium member and yes there were wonderful answers. I have not covered a lot of areas in SL so I thought these forums could help me

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