I know how you feel. I would first consider getting into gor. There are hundreds of Gorean Sims that are all adult. Next, if you want to get into the really good stuff, I would first recommend switching to a rlv enabled viewer like firestorm and get a open collar for your avatar. Then If you enable rlv relay, I would recommend THE LOVERS BDSM RLV PLAYGROUND. It is the best one I have found yet. Hope I helped.