PierreLeRoc

I am looking for some practical help in understanding the bondage toys available in SL. I have figured out collars (sort of), but I am still pretty much in the dark about how to play as a kidnapper, dominant, etc. if the sub/prey is not wearing a collar. I understand that if the sub/prey is wearing an RLV relay, then there are devices I can acquire that will allow me to seize her even if she is not wearing a collar - but what specifically those devices are is still beyond me. Help!