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Ember Starchild

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  1. 1 hour ago, Phil Deakins said:

    What makes sense to you, and what makes sense to others varies a lot. We all have our own ideas about what makes sense. So your statement is totally wrong, but I fixed it for you - the red words.

    You're welcome :)

    very informative information! you're right that it makes sense to me but I doubt I'm the only one. i now understand that perhaps they serve some type of purpose. i'm just trying to figure SL out and am open to changing my opinion  if someone responds to my frustrations with something useful that will help me learn more about SL 🙃

  2. 1 hour ago, Nova Convair said:

    You don't know if that are bots and you don't know if they are afk. You have no clue if that is a text client playing chat relay or someone playing a hud game or if that is a bot doing something or a bot parking. Besides of that bots are legit.

    In other words, you know nothing about things that are not your business. 😎

    it's okay to ask about things in which i don't understand. i didn't know sims could play hud games or do chat relay. when i enter a sim full of 30+ and it's completely silent, it's fine for me to assume they are either bots or just AFK. i've went to Info Hub's recently where default avatars are all in a group, facing the same way, and then some disappear and different ones reappear so I wondered if those were actually bots. maybe they are just new people to SL though. 

    so in a way... i can make it my business to try to understand what it means 🤭 

  3. 3 hours ago, Sid Nagy said:

    Their land, their rules I guess.
    The use of bots is not forbidden. Being AFK either.
    So there is very little you can do about it, but to accept it happens IMHO.

    hi, yes, i don't think i asked if there was anything i could do about it. just sharing some SL frustrations, but that doesn't me i'm begging for a way to fix it lol

  4. I bet this has been talked about many times but since getting back into SL and exploring as many populated places as I can find... The AFK and bot avis are THE WORST. I see 0 point in sims to AFK at... Idk. They only make sense if the sim has a theme that needs some characters added to it.

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  5. well my friend and i aren't black but we're always down to make actual friends here. if you wanna add me you can! we mostly just go to random places and mess around and try to talk to people and go shopping. it's not like you'll have the time of your life but it's something to do at least. i do understand what you mean though. i can't count how many times i've been in a voice sim and there's just constant use of the n-word because they're safe behind their computer. there's always someone that ruins the chill experience we're all trying to find here. so i can understand why you'd want to try to find like minded people and not have to deal with that BS.

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  6. I'm finding it hard to find active sims where people type in public chat. But I'm sure there are places where it is active. It can be voice or non voice and preferably not where it's super Adult oriented where someone only IMs you if they're interested in anything sexual. Strangely enough I can't find a lot of forum questions that ask this same question.

    I would really prefer maybe a 39 and under type crowd but I know sim's are not dedicated to one type of age group unless it's 18+ which I understand. 

    I just started hanging out on SL again with my friend/SLpartner but we have a hard time finding decent places to talk to people unless we go and browse around adult sims, but it's not totally a place to make actual friends. Honestly we would just LOVE any type of public interaction!

    Any suggestions are appreciated if you're willing to share your hangout spots!


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  7. This is the Emilia (Lelutka head skin from MILA's older skin tones)


    Basically my question is, is there any other skin shops that have similar lips and the button-ish nose like this skin?  I like a bit more pout but not overly excessive. I KNOW that I can get add ons to make any other skins into a button nose or buy makeup for the lips to make it similar to this skin but I'd like to have the no makeup look have these features without any makeup. I'm new to shopping again in SL, so I've tried searching on flickr, in the groups, the marketplace, in world search but it's a little overwhelming. Thanks to any replies.



  8. On 3/3/2021 at 9:02 AM, Quistessa said:

    I vaguely remember a sandbox next to a beach somewhere on freedom continent, probably adult hub, but I'm too lazy to go look for it.

    very relatable comment. and with your context clues i've found a random beachy place i can unbox. so thanks 🙂

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  9. Hey, so I have the Slink Avatar Enhancement Hands. I also have the Birdy Slink Avatar Enhancement Appliers. I've been looking around with no real solution so I thought I'd just come here and ask.

    I've tried what I could to get the applier to work with the hands but I would just like a step by step of what I need to do. The Birdy appliers- everytime I press my skin tone (I'm wearing a Birdy skin too) it doesn't apply to the slink hands. I'm obviously doing something wrong and I would appreciate it greatly If I could get some help. I am somewhat new to the slink hands and appliers, I never bothered as much (lazy) but I have them so I wanted to give them a try, and I know I would like them if I knew how to use them lol, thank you!

  10. Ohh well yeah I know they're very different. I meant that I have the Adult options on. I guess I used poor choice of words. And a lot of people said they were Age Verified or needed to be Age Verified, I had no idea you were actually already verified loll. I'll just try messaging the owner, thank you both!

  11. I've been trying to visit the sim Public Disgrace. It keeps ejecting me and it hasn't said anywhere I've been banned. I tried contacting the owner, with no response. I know you're allowed to be booted or banned with no reason, but I haven't gotten that message. It just ejects me to a new place. I was going to file a help ticket but there isn't an option for this problem. (I'm new at all this really) No where in the rules has it said you need to be or have something specific to get in. I looked on the members list and I'm still there. So I don't know what could be wrong. When I first started I went there a little bit, but I haven't been in there in months. Maybe it was something I did or said, I don't know. If that were the case then I'd probably be banned which in turn would show me the banned message which I haven't gotten.

    I have the Adult access pass thing. My friend has gotten in and she's not age verified if that's a thing but she does have the access pass to enter adult sims too. I don't think it has to do with height and my avi is not a child so....Help!


    I think I put this in the wrong category too btw, sorry bout that.

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