Update we are still together and we still use SL, allmost everyday. SL has tested our realtionship very early with trust and communication etc ,, but now we have that in place we have a happy SL & RL Relationship/partnership.- I took the leap and moved the 500 miles to live with him in anoher country, after he made a couple of vists too the UK too see me... and tho in the begaining its been hard, being away for my close grp of family and friends - its been a life changing experince, and i would recomend it...
Inorder for us both to use SL and enjoy it . we had to make sure rules that