Well very pleased to say I log in fine now. First I set my log in to a different place on my home land as far away from the build as possible. Logged back in wow what a difference that did make. Instantly deleted the mesh build put my old one back up. No more lag so I think this is a very valid question answered YES some mesh builds do seem to cause extreme lag they take way too much band width I did check this as well loading time for this build was awful. It stated in info before I brought the build make sure you have a mesh viewer and extra prims .. I do and I did. I think its the textures on it superb quality but just too much.. I have never in all my days on SL had this problem before. Thank you so much for all the advise much appreciated I know more about builds now then I ever did