[My inventory is gone. Where did all of the things I bought go?]

I've been off of the game for some time, as I just moved and needed a new PC. Now that I have a new PC I downloaded, installed and am now playing but nothing that I had is in my inventory. My freinds list has the same friends so I know this is my account, so where is my stuff? 

[I can't detach an item]

I did get it off tho. I had to go back to the SL viwer and detach it from the avatar then go back to my viewer. sadly this isn't a fix for the relay but at least I can now delete the thing and move on with my second life...lol. I hope this helps someone. 

[I can't detach an item]

I have the same problem with the  tkPBA (110v): Relay. Restarting does not help and it will not come off no matter what I have tried. I have tried all the option on the relay except HARDCORE witch would leave me to have just this type of trouble but as I have the safeword on and the relay is in ask mode I can't see how someone could lock it on me permanently like this. I can do almost anything except the spot is forever filled and I appearance can't use the Owner type HUDs while this thing is attached. I have tried to detach every thing by using that option under "take off"  on the menu when you right click on Your avatar, I have tried to reset my avatar to the standard male. I have found it in my items but the "detach" option is not clickable, and I even tried to stop wearing every item in my inventory. Sadly it's still there, I can be completely naked but that thing will not detach.