I have the same problem with the tkPBA (110v): Relay. Restarting does not help and it will not come off no matter what I have tried. I have tried all the option on the relay except HARDCORE witch would leave me to have just this type of trouble but as I have the safeword on and the relay is in ask mode I can't see how someone could lock it on me permanently like this. I can do almost anything except the spot is forever filled and I appearance can't use the Owner type HUDs while this thing is attached. I have tried to detach every thing by using that option under "take off" on the menu when you right click on Your avatar, I have tried to reset my avatar to the standard male. I have found it in my items but the "detach" option is not clickable, and I even tried to stop wearing every item in my inventory. Sadly it's still there, I can be completely naked but that thing will not detach.