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Livvya

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  1. Recently I partnered for the first time in my sl life after having a wonderful relationship of many weeks. All those weeks we met eachother daily in SL, first IC in roleplay, after some time also OOC with our ALTs, and it felt so amazing that we just wanted something more and he wanted to partner me. I was so happy and thrilled. All this time i knew however that he had alts, as I had a few too, but both not really playing on them Then suddenly after a few days he came less online. I waited at the same time we always were online together and messaged him, got worried and then i found him playing on his ALT (one he thought i wasnt aware of). I Always told myself, that playing on Alts isnt really that bad, or hurting or ruining what you have. But now I couldnt believe that he did this, it was the last thing I expected....and it did hurt me. I dont want to feel hurt, its his business and i should be happy with what we have, but somehow i feel so sad and confused about it. I dont want to ask him about it, I dont want to question him either, I want to feel trust, but same time everything seems so vulnerable in SL. I want to know if others recognize it, if i should not worry about it, how i should take this.
  2. Recently I partnered for the first time in my sl life after having a wonderful relationship of many weeks. All those weeks we met eachother daily in SL, first IC in roleplay, after some time also OOC with our ALTs, and it felt so amazing that we just wanted something more and he wanted to partner me. I was so happy and thrilled. All this time i knew however that he had alts, as I had a few too, but both not really playing on them Then suddenly after a few days he came less online. I waited at the same time we always were online together and messaged him, got worried and then i found him playing on his ALT (one he thought i wasnt aware of). I Always told myself, that playing on Alts isnt really that bad, or hurting or ruining what you have. But now I couldnt believe that he did this, it was the last thing I expected....and it did hurt me. I dont want to feel hurt, its his business and i should be happy with what we have, but somehow i feel so sad and confused about it. I dont want to ask him about it, I dont want to question him either, I want to feel trust, but same time everything seems so vulnerable in SL. I want to know if others recognize it, if i should not worry about it, how i should take this.
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