I'VE BEEN HERE 7 MONTHS. AND I'VE LEARNED MANY PEOPLE ON HERE ARE UNSTABLE! I HAVE BEEN HAVING THE SAME ISSUE'S. AND THE ONLY ADVICE I CAN GIVE YOU. IS NO MATTER HOW MUCH THIS PERSON IS TRYING TO GET AT YOU! DON'T UTTER HIS/HER NAME. THAT GOES FOR NEARBY CHAT. MAKE LIKE THEY DON'T EXIST IN YOUR WORLD! I FOUND AFTER MONTH OF THIS GOING ON IT HAS STOPPED. SL CAN'T DO MUCH IF THERE IS NO THREATENING OF ONE'S PERSON. IT'S HARD TO DO. BUT WHEN THEY THINK IT'S NOT GETTING THE REACTION THEY WANT, HOPEFULLY IT WILL GO AWAY!. AND WHEN YOU DISCUSS IT WITH A FRIEND ALWAYS DO IT IN A PRIVATE CHAT! I WISH YOU THE BEST! MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE! AND HAPPY HOLIDAYS AS WELL! JOE