[I keep getting the message that my video drivers are not up to date but they are current.]

As Ansariel Hiller said,

It's better off using teh graphics driver from your company that owns the graphics. Windows will just install a graphics that will help you view your screen but sometimes will not allow you to do such things.

If you are running Windows 8 please make sure that your graphics have an update or anything on their websitws. If you need any sort of help doing this please feel free to contact me

[how do I see Mesh?]

If you would like to see mesh, id recomend you to use Firestorm and you should be able to see it with setting nothing at all.

[Second Life Windows 8 Intel Series 4 Graphic drivers problem]

Hey, send me a PM and ill give you a file to download so your computer running windows 8 can accept the driver, and then ill send you the link to download the link for Intel Mobile 4 Series graphics.

 

I would also sugguest you to please check on the Intel website to make sure your computer is running the latest chipset

[Second Life Windows 8 Intel Series 4 Graphic drivers problem]

Hey let me know what Windows 8 your running and ill send you a modified Intel Mobile 4 Graphics for you.

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