Peggy - I'm sorry to see that your paitience is so short.
There is this wonderful feature where you can look to see what your ping to the sim you are typically on is; it's called Statitstics. Under those statistics is a section called PING SIM. This number is almost always under 100. This is sufficient ping for any sim/server connection to a client.
As far as my connection, are you kidding me? My router is secured and password protected. I most CERTAINLY know who is on it. I am the only one that uses it. I've ran plenty of speed tests. The connection is fine and it is not contributing to a low FPS. In the past, I have ran other machines at this same location, on the same network. My FPS was fine.
I have rebooted my router and modem several times in the past, and this hasn't fixed the frames per second issue.
Thanks for assuming it's my connection, but I can assure you, it's not.