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  1. 39 minutes ago, Alwin Alcott said:

    as mean boy i also say; Um!

    Yup …. figures!  

    1 hour ago, Sassy Kenin said:

    We're not all running with the same pack as you pointy already know. welcome to the Forum!..here's a warm, tasty Welcome Pie!.....Enjoy!😘

     

     

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    That's funny!  Cute … but I could/would never deprive you and your pals of it!  Thanx … Enjoy!  🙂

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  2. 8 hours ago, Seicher Rae said:

    Dude, you are the only one who didn't get the memo on this back in grade school.

    I already wrote on your first installment. This second installment is indeed spam. Spam is frowned upon.

    If you want to write a blog, write a blog. This isn't a blog.

    Also, you might want to stop smoking the Messiah Weed.

    Dudette …. you all are/were truly the mean girls in the school yard!  They never really fazed me … ever!  And you still don't; but as usual, you, … those of you who stepped up to present yourselves that way … you have no 'shame', .. you are full of vanity, and are the most in hospitable bunch ever on the planet … period!  You define what you hold dear, and seek to railroad anyone who rises up and speaks against it … and YOU say that I am judging … well … you truly can't point the finger without 3 pointing back at you!  See … when I say, … I'm done, or I have had enough … I mean it, … you all just go on and on … not listening and beating a dead horse.  I explained myself, …. and I am done!  I am not one to force myself on anyone, friendship wise, … not that dreadfully desperate!  You and those like you deserve each other, miserable lot that you all are!  You represent all that is impatient, unkind, uncaring, unhelpful and uninviting about SL!!  I have my awesome favorite places about second life … but this group, some amongst you, is NOT one!  Thank you for you abundant lack of hospitality and graciousness … I am done, … because it simply really is not worth my time!  *Stay well, be safe!* Adios!

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  3. 7 hours ago, Seicher Rae said:

    Um. What? Just, what? on so many levels. So, you wrote a story/journal using words, and you don't think words, your words in particular are worth talking about? Then why post? "To share ideas?" Um, those ideas are presented as those pesky words again. So. What?

    That sounds like a spam threat. Just sayin'.

     

    I don't think you know how the Forum works. As far as anyone "following" you, I just looked at your profile and it would appear that approximately zero are following you. Some people have *read* your posts, and as far as I can tell no one is taking you seriously, and all are failing to see this great revelation of which you write--with words.

     

    I think you mean "any" readers.

     

    If this is more about you than us, then... why post? Flexibility in "our" understanding? LoL, what? A little self-awareness might be nice.

    As far as I can tell from your original words (yes, those pesky words again): You think that some people show up in SL just for (gasp) le pixel sex! Uh huh. Alert the media. This has been discussed to death since about 2003. And fwiw, if you want to be taken seriously, those pesky words matter. It isn't bad wrap, it is bad rap. What you wrote refers to a leaky burrito. 

    But then you give us the big, alert the media, news that some people come into SL for other things. Again, this is obvious and has been discussed to death since 2003. Giving the group a special title like "Realistic Dreamers" is just... so what? It means nothing. It is just some term you made up to describe people who do stuff in SL. Btw, hate to tell you this, but created stuff to enable pixel sex is probably the largest generator of $L. 

    So, you don't think any of those productive dreamers ever has pixel sex too? Hahahahahaha. 

    The two things are not mutually exclusive.

    It is clear you have a little bit of a problem regarding sexuality, and have a little too much concern for what other people do or don't do.

    You have not espoused anything new, anything exciting, anything thought-worthy here. Yippee for the continuations, though...

    All the mean girls in the yard, say:  "Um!!" ...

    This one post, has generated more activity then I ever would have dreamed possible.  All the haters, that have come forward, would have been more effective … had you all simply said nothing!  Here is to having shaken up the little sleepy wasp nest that was your existence up to now!  Your RUDENESS and lack of hospitality, of some, … is absolutely stellar, award winning even!  Judge on!  *Stay well, stay safe!' 

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  4. 6 hours ago, Vega Firelyte said:

    If you are looking to start a blog, there are several really wonderful platforms that you can use, for free.  Might I suggest Blogger or Wordpress, two platforms that are very popular with bloggers and both free to use?  This is a forum and posting like this does tend to be a bit frowned on, as some may have mentioned, in passing.  

    Hi … No thanx, Vega!  I am totally fine where I am!  Thanx! 🙂  Oh and frowning gives one wrinkles … would not suggest that!  *Stay well, stay safe!*

  5. 3 minutes ago, kali Wylder said:

    Hey, that's what I was asking, Who's the him?  And what's with the ...s?

    There is no HIM because I was not permitted to continue … this was just a start … interrupted!  🙂

     

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  6. 3 minutes ago, Beth Macbain said:

    Oh you sweet summer child... If you want this to be all about you, I strongly suggest that you start an actual blog where you can control  the comments.

    You may, of course, continue on with this thing, whatever this thing is, here but you won’t be able to stop people commenting in whatever way they feel it is best to respond.

    The forums are a lot of things, but they aren’t an echo chamber.

    Beth … I am by no means a child!  I guess it is just in you to taint every kind and/or nice gesture with ugliness and a pinch of disrespect, … but if that is how you serve it up! Okay!  I could have blocked responses to my post … but I didn't.  Nothing here is happening that I have never seen before; but you seem intent on forcing me -- out!  I don't need your permission to continue nor discontinue.  Thank you!  'Stay safe, be well!'

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  7. 9 minutes ago, Seicher Rae said:

    To simplify everything, here's a thought. Just outfit every female avatar with one of these, and equivalents for everyone else, and Bob's your uncle, no more pesky pixel sexies and everyone can get on with being productive, and creating nuns' habits and such. I'm a problem solver. YW.

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    Good One!  No … I wouldn't exactly call this a solution … but that's funny!  🙂

  8. 21 minutes ago, Beth Macbain said:

    I believe that you believe you came here with good intentions looking to connect with intellectuals such as yourself (Ha!) to discuss creativity and innovation in SL. 

    What you actually did, though, was come here to pontificate in regards to this epiphany you’ve had.

    Its hard to believe you wanted to engage in any sort of conversation when you dismiss any discussion of the sexual side of SL as something you don’t “accept” when most of the creativity and innovation in SL is due to people trying to figure out how to get laid as realistically as possible.

    Sure, tons of other things have come about as offshoots of that naughty creativity and innovation, but that doesn’t change that sex drives a hell of a lot of the creative side of SL, and to ignore that is to have half a conversation.

    You might be interested to know that there are Lindens and Moles who were hired when they were residents and their special talents involve all those dirty things that you want to pretend don’t exist.

    The one thing you can only assume, is what my intent in writing my piece was.  The one thing that I can not do, is placate the paranoia of other people.  I will not argue my intent with anyone, who initially did not stop to ask me … and I was not asked; and I will not continue this dialog.  I will continue … and you may follow or not follow.  I am not one given to engagement in arguments.  I get it, … you're not a fan … okay!  But although some of what I write may upset you and others like you, … this is not about you!  Thank you … your participation is always as now appreciated; but we don't seem to be able to reach an agreement … on something, that is already, decidedly, about ME! - "Stay well, stay safe!"

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  9. 1 minute ago, Selene Gregoire said:

    Defense? I'm not defending myself against anything. I can see I've wasted too much time on your nonsense as it is. My life is way too short for that crap. *plonk*

     

    1 minute ago, Selene Gregoire said:

    Defense? I'm not defending myself against anything. I can see I've wasted too much time on your nonsense as it is. My life is way too short for that crap. *plonk*

     

    2 minutes ago, Selene Gregoire said:

    Defense? I'm not defending myself against anything. I can see I've wasted too much time on your nonsense as it is. My life is way too short for that crap. *plonk*

    You're the one that threw the stone, insult at me!  But your final resolve is understood!

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  10. 1 minute ago, Selene Gregoire said:

    I think you need to lay off the LSD.

    Ok now you assume too much …. and it is embarrassing to me that you resort to this in your own defense!  Stop it, I sense that you are much better than that!  😞 YOU don't even know me, … so I will NOT allow myself to be offended!  Good try though

     

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  11. 23 minutes ago, Luna Bliss said:

    So you have moved into a new creative phase in SL...that's great!   I do believe that's the main purpose of your initial post, and perhaps you were wanting others to acknowledge your enthusiasm?

    Yes … yes I was!  I was hoping to be perceived as a friendly … not a HOSTILE!!  I did not take note of the paranoid temperature of some in the room … but hey wait, isn't this MY Thread?  [confused].

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  12. 14 minutes ago, Luna Bliss said:

    LOL I was sitting here laughing out loud due to feeling such fun. It's like the cobwebs have blown out of the forum.

    LOL …. well …. I guess that is what happens, Luna, when unexpected/uninvited newbies enter such a group!!  Thanx!  🙂

    HOW DARE I!!!  ROFL!!!  🙂

     

  13. 5 minutes ago, JanuarySwan said:

    I vaguely recall the movie too...but what I do recall is (in my bad synopsis), she ends up finding herself and getting divorced in the end but she ends up with another person.   And, it seems you are saying you found yourself recently (from what I read in your OP)...or are kind of saying you've found a new direction for your life.  That's cool.  

    I think there is some response regarding what you wrote in your OP about the sexual aspect of SL.  I've read in many threads where people say SL is perceived that way quite a lot by outsiders.  Many of us know SL can be whatever we want it to be since we, more or less, have to create our SL ourselves.  As to the stereotypes of SL...I think what people are saying in this thread is our sexuality or lack of sexuality doesn't have anything to do with who created what here in SL, other than your suggestion that not engaging in pixel sex allowed more time to create.  

    You wrote a lot in your opening post.

    If you are looking to connect with creative people on a non-sexual level, I think you could do that in SL.  

    JanuarySwan …. you are spot on when it comes to my having said I found a new direction (for myself).  Often times, when we write (as I am absolutely sure you know) … because, thus far … you seem to get what I am 'trying' to say; but, often times, when we write, the best subject to write about 'is oneself'.  Yes, I am trying to make a contrast in 'choices'.  Not trying to make suggestions nor judgements … but it seemed everyone jumped to that … and focused on nothing else.  The only person, that I have control over, is me; and even then, only to some degree; because try as I might, I can't stop aging nor evade death!

    So, I appreciate, …nevertheless … the feedback that I am getting.  It isn't what I had hoped for; but I was delighted to see in my email account that someone had responded; but dang … I wasn't prepared for the reception!  I can adjust and I can deal … and I hope this will work out so that I may continue …. gonna keep trying, in the knowledge that there will be another obstacle somewhere down the road!

    Thank you for sharing your view points.  I find it helpful!  Thanx!  🙂

     

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  14. Just now, LittleBittieOne said:

    ROFL .… Me neither!!! I had the best of intentions but it back fired!  All caught up now, Luna?!  🙂

     

    To be honest … this is the most challenging FUN that I have had in a long time … at least, … I am definitely NOT bored anymore!!!  Hahahaha!  🙂

     

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  15. 3 minutes ago, Luna Bliss said:

    It's fun. We don't know what the hell's going on.   lol

    ROFL .… Me neither!!! I had the best of intentions but it back fired!  All caught up now, Luna?!  🙂

     

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  16. Just now, LittleMe Jewell said:

    @LittleBittieOne -- This  ^^

    Your threads -- both of them -- are so freaking confusing.  Pretty much everything you have posted in response to others does not really help me understand either.  I'm not sure why you posted and what you are hoping to accomplish.

    LittleMe Jewell … Great question!  Thing is, I was hoping to connect … just not like this!  But, hey, … 'mission accomplished! .. I guess!  Thanks!  🙂

     

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  17. 3 minutes ago, Luna Bliss said:

    The only group I haven't experienced this dynamic in was a Yoga/Meditation one. All others seemed to develop an inner core that thought they had to control everything, and they made it their mission to drive anybody too strange out of the group.

    * The intensity of the dynamic did vary in intensity though, from group to group.

    Well, ... that's just awful!!!  So sorry you had to go through that! However, you know, … sometime, with some people the harder their pushed, the stronger then get!!  🙂

     

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  18. 2 minutes ago, Luna Bliss said:

    Presently there's a strong need to feel safe due to all the Covid Chaos, and groups sometimes create safety and bond via excluding anything/anyone threatening or unknown. Maybe once you are better known you'll experience less "acid".

    Luna, ... if this initiation does not speed that along … nothing ever will!  To shorten it a bit more, please allow me:  "I tend to speak my mind and I feel fully capable of providing myself the needed support; I can be a "bestest best friend"; I strive to be helpful and respectful to others; I don't like when people bully; if I can't help … I will never hinder … I love and appreciate creative expression, we don't all have to agree … but sure would be helpful if we could just try to communicate and get along;  I have worked in human services nearly my entire adult career in RL … and I am probably old enough to be your mother!! - That's me in a nut shell!  🙂

     

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  19. 5 minutes ago, Seicher Rae said:

    I am also feeling VERY LEFT OUT! Everyone else gets an indecipherable reply, but not me. 😞 All the cool kids are getting replies...

    LOL …. come on Seicher Rae, … jump on in!!!  The water is kinda ''chilly' … but I think you can get used to it … oh wait, … maybe that's me that has to get used to ie … LOL … anyway, … jum in!!  🙂

     

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  20. 8 minutes ago, JanuarySwan said:

    OP:  When I saw the title I was expecting a "Desperately Seeking Susan" kind of thread and wondered who "him" was.  Desperately Seeking Susan was a movie made in the 1980's.  

    So, after reading this thread...there is no "him"?  

    What's up with the title then?  

    Whom or what are you seeking?   A relationship?  Those tags say relationship.  

    JanuarySwan … I vaguely recall the movie, but my intent was to get to that … eventually.  You asked all the right questions; and I had every intent to provide more, … but I am beginning to feel very happy that I didn't; because what I have submitted so far, seems to be upsetting to some!  I apologize for that; … but the reception, seems to me, somewhat uncalled for.  I am new, not to SL, but to this forum true …. but is this how the members all receive new comers?!  Dang … what really is the threat?

    Anyway, JanuarySwan … if we can get pass this, esp with me being the 'non-conformist' type of gal, … I'd like to share more and respond to the questions that you raised!  Thank you!  🙂

     

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  21. 1 minute ago, Luna Bliss said:

    Welcome to the forum.

    Entering the forum and being so open right off the bat is confusing to some, I think. Usually people do a little dance when getting to know each other -- that creates trust. If you don't dance people tend to think you don't care about them or how they've established things in the space you've entered.

    Thank you Ms. Bliss (Luna) … that provides me some understanding as to why I am getting the reaction that I am (but only from a mere few … obviously).  I hear what you're saying and I appreciate it.  It is just, … strange  to me.  Never had this happen before.  Never met nor entered a group that is 'actually' territorial before!  Hmmm … odd!  My environments, both actual and virtual, has always been more accepting … welcoming even; never been met with so much … acid!  I am not fazed by it though; just trying to adjust.  Thank you!  

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  22. Very nice hand puppet!  That's usually what some people do when the content falls beyond their comprehension!  I find this acceptable too!  Thanks!  Less … blah blah now!  - 'Stay well, stay safe!'

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    Very nice hand puppet!  That's usually what some people do when the content falls beyond their comprehension!  I find this acceptable too!  Thanks!  Less … blah blah now!  - 'Stay well, stay safe!'

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