Thank you that was very helpful. I have already looked over about half of them in the past trying to gain enough knowledge as I could. I read the rest of them, the main issue I have had is it is almost all form the submissives point of view. I will mention though "RLV -how it does what it does" did answer my question about the not needing an RLV viewer as a Dom. Most of the articles leave the dominants perspective out.
I really hate to be an ill informed dominant so I have been avoiding traps since the incident with my friend. Should the command be in the force sitter to release? How as the dominant do I strip of my partners clothes? I have seen it done so many times and have read about it from a submissives view but it doesn't describe what the Dominant is seeing. Are they viewing a menu that is allowing them to do this once the have control of their submissives viewer?
Also to answer the question I use the catznip viewer.