[About logging in SL]

I had the same problem using Phoenix when I logged in got the TOS window ... but all I could hit was cancel until I selected one of the links inside the TOS window. Once I did that I was able to accept the TOS and continue with my loggin.

[Setting landing point for club in the sky?]

What is the elevation of your club. Its been a while since I have had to post events for clubs but back then there was a height restriction for LM's to be posted for events. You may have to put the LM at a ground point with a tp to the club or lower the club.