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  1. Thanks all for the advice and thoughts. Not sure how this will pan out. It's sad to think this could be our undoing.
  2. Thank you. It's great to hear advice/critique from someone who is poly.
  3. We live together in real life, but sometimes are online in different rooms, doing our own thing, which makes the hiding even more absurd, I know.
  4. I am sure this is a question as old as SL itself but here goes. My real life partner recently joined SL. We of course discussed boundaries and all that, etc. For the most part, I don't care if he has flings and whatnot. SL is to be enjoyed after all. However, he has recently started hiding his online status from me. I have also found out that he has developed friendships/relationships with a few people. I found that he started posting to a dormant tumblr account and is following/being followed by one of these people. I also found a flickr account (that he has not mentioned to me) with pics of his exploits. At least one of his other friends is also following him on this account. I am not sure what to do at this point? We have already had several discussions about this and he assures me he is not doing anything outside of our boundaries. I know a lot of people in SL have flickr accounts. But do most people use them to post pics of their exploits? And then not tell their partners about them? Either their SL or RL partners? Is there even a distinction? I do not fear that he will leave me for anyone in SL, even though I know that has happened in some cases. What I can't stomach is the dishonesty and/or lack of full disclosure. I do not want him to quit SL but I also do not want to feel like there are things going on behind my back. For clarity, I don't take issue so much with the relationships but the breaching outside of SL.
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