thank you all so much!
ok, so after reading your suggestions, the starter shape seemed to make sense, I did not use one. So I did try it, started all over....and it is still there, I tried several shapes for a start.
I do wish my shape very small, and this side issue happens when I lower all the sliders. But I see others with the same shape Im attempting, and they do not have this issue.
I think in trying different body demos, such as the smaller ones, has broken something.....I bought the underformer, and used it, tho I had been using the one FS in the past.....it did seem to